It's called SELFshipping! It's about YOU! Do what makes you happy, because your relationship is only meant for YOU (and a couple of friend n mutuals who go rabid when you post about you and your F/O).
"But canon-"
IS A SUGGESTION! Dead F/O? Ignore it! Sexuality doesn't align with your gender? It does NOW! Canon love interest? Sorry i ated them they're gone, go kiss your beloved!
I know it can be embarrassing, but that's how you know you're hitting the GOOD stuff. Indulge in that kink you're too shy to talk about with your F/O, draw them in something cute, draw them in an AU, genderbend them, headcanon them up the wazoo- go nuts!
I feel like I make a post like this every week but it's important to remember! Don't stop short of making yourself TRULY happy! Go for what you wanna go for, and if people can't handle that, then that's their problem.
I hope every selfshipper (and ficto selfshippers) have an amazing rest of their day, or if it's night, an amazing tomorrow!
Please don't use AI to depict your yumeships. It takes 5 seconds to see how harmful AI is to the environment, to people living where the data centers are being built, and how they drive up prices for computer prices and electricity.
I get you love your F/Os and maybe can't draw or afford commissions, but I BEG OF YOU to not use AI. An MS paint doodle of your F/O is infinitely more beautiful than some shitty AI that's no doubt been trained on stolen artwork. You can use picrews, character creators, draw over bases etc etc.
I'm sure there's people out there willing to do requests, art trades or even commissions for you. Support artists or be one yourself, I beg. It's an immediate -10,000 respect seeing somebody post AI """art""" of their yumeship.
Seeing people be rude about Clint Stardew kinda sours my opinion of them, ngl. The update isn't even out yet, how do you know that his character isn't going to develop?
fyi he isn't even that big of a creep in game you are all just mean to a fat man who is pining
Yo, I'm Roman! Welcome to my selfship blog. Here I post about my beloved fictional others, everything from thirstposts to art to fics. I love my beloveds VERY much and cannot share them, so I ask any doubles to kindly block me and not interact! I selectively share some F/Os but that's only with close friends.
I am fictosexual and take my F/O relationships as seriously as real partners. If you have an issue with that, kindly block me and move on with your day. Harassment solves nothing.
My main relationship is with Jean Pierre Polnareff from JoJo's Bizarre Adventure, to whom I've been married to since 15/04/25! I also occasionally add Kakyoin Noriaki and Kujo Jotaro to the polycule, but Polnareff is my absolute soulmate.
You may see me post occasionally about other F/Os but Polnareff is always my first and foremost F/O.
IMPORTANT NOTE
I'm fictosexual and consider myself a yume at the same time. No these labels do not conflict, nor is one superior to the other. If you get upset over selfship / yume / ficto discourse, or wanna start arguments, please leave.
I deal with enough discourse and drama over these things. I'm here to love my F/Os, not worry about having the 'correct' label applied to myself.
🩵 ABOUT ME 🩵
💙 — 24
🩵 — He / She / They (Bigender)
💙 — Fictosexual + Fictoromantic
🩵 — Proship + Anti Harassment
💙 — Loyal Dog
🩵 — Love getting asks and chatting! I don't bite (unless you're an anti /j)
💙 — Kink Positive + Fetish Enthusiast
🩵 — NSFW Artist (Bara)
💙 — Normal about big brothers (truth)
🩵 — My favourite colour is blue (second fav is orange)
💙 — I use Clip Studio Paint EX 4.0 + XP-Pen Deco 01 V2 to draw
🩵 — I LOVE POLNAREFF AND KAKYOIN!! MY SOULMATES!!
If you want to leave a doodle for me, draw your OC or just something nice you can do so on my Magma Board!
Be kind and respectful! Please don't draw on here if you're under 18+ as suggestive stuff is allowed on the NSFW board. Feel free to also leave your @ beside any drawings you do so I know who to credit if I share them!!
Create on a shared canvas in real time. Magma is a drawing platform for artists and teams to sketch, collaborate, and grow together.
⬇️ MORE BELOW THE CUT ⬇️
💙 TAGS I USE 💙
#barayume thoughts — general posts
#barayume art — my art
#barayume asks — asks and responses
#barayume kisses — yumeship posts
#barayume doodles — ms paint doodles
#barayume writes — fic links
This is my S/I Roman Holiday! He's a loyal and headstrong young man who is fiercely protective of those he loves. Will sacrifice himself if needed. Always a top, often shy but if pushed enough can become very dominant. A service top / submissive top depending on situation.
And this is Polnareff! This is how he is to me, and how I ask people draw him if I commission them. He's always a bottom no matter what, and 90 percent of the time he's submissive. His and Roman's relationship is an utter slowburn until the Judgement arc, where Roman falls in love with him.
MEDIA I ENJOY
⭐ — Jojo's Bizarre Adventure (Parts 1-3)
⭐ — X-Men / Marvel (1990-2000s)
💙 — Mortal Kombat
🩵 — Date Everything
💙 — Slime Rancher (1 + 2)
🩵 — Jujutsu Kaisen
💙 — TF2
🩵 — The Amazing Digital Circus
💙 — Stardew Valley
🩵 — Project Zomboid
💙 — Dead Rising 1 + 2 + 3
🩵 — Lolipop Chainsaw, Dead Island... any zombie games basically...
NASTY THINGS I ENJOY (FICTIONAL)
💙 — Incest (mostly brocon)
🩵 — Omorashi / Piss
💙 — Noncon + Dubcon
🩵 — Omegaverse / Male Pregnancy
💙 — Sweat + Body Odor Kink + Armpits
🩵 — Age Gap + Aged Up Characters
💙 — Age Regression (I prefer nonsexual but I'm fine with sexual)
Keep in mind I cannot post most of these things on here explicitly, but I can mention them via text. Follow my Bluesky + Twitter if you wanna see (and AREN'T under 18)
MY ACCOUNT IS NOT A SAFE SPACE FOR RADQUEERS, TRANSID SUPPORTERS, PRO-CONTACT PEDOPHILES, ZOOS OR NECROS.
ALL CONTENT I POST IS FICTIONAL ONLY AND NOT FOR MINORS
💙 F/O LIST + STRAWPAGE + F/O SHIP TAGS 💙
Please read my F/O list before following. Doubles get blocked.
Also while I appreciate general comments on my artwork please DO NOT thirst over my F/Os! I am extremely uncomfortable receiving thirst about my beloved partners, especially from strangers.
Commenting anything lewd, sexual, possessive or hateful will lead to a block.
For NO reason at all do the perverts following me have any suggestions for legal lolis / shotas / kodos in general? I'm very out of my element but I may be... converting... and need some ideas.
The ones that look cute n young but are over 18 are so peak to me (I may heavily relate)
I need to find proship friendly yume servers that don't have doubles. Tried applying to some today and had no such luck. I might start my own server, but managing one is so much work, I'm not in the best place to run one.
