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[thispurepositivity]

So much easier said than done, but holding back can make you miss out on all the potential love. No matter, what there is no loss when you love freely ❤️#lovefreely #dontholdback #quoteoftheday #quotestoliveby #barbaradeangelis #positivity #inspiring #instaquote #thispurepositivity #spreadlove #loveishard #worthit

[writingmetier]

We don’t develop courage by being happy every day. We develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity. — Barbara De Angelis

WritingMetier.com wishes you to get through hard times and get to the happy days ASAP!

[mehranbooki]

معرفی کتاب رازهایی درباره زنان اثرباربارا دی آنجلیس در درجه نخست براى خانم‌ها نوشته شده است و براى شناخت مردان نسبت به زنان نیست، بلکه هدف آن آشنایى و درک بیشتر زنان از خودشان است. خود ما نیز اغلب در مورد وجودمان شک مى‌کنیم و از خود سوال می‌کنیم: «آیا رفتار من طبیعى است؟ آیا توقعات من بیش از حد نیست؟ در حقیقت، ما خود را آنگونه که لازم است، نمى‌شناسیم و این عدم شناخت، عادات مخربى مانند عدم اعتماد به نفس را به دنبال دارد. این کتاب به شما اثبات مى‌کند که شما در وراى هر احساسى و رفتارتان دلیلى منطقى و محبت‌آمیز وجود دارد. این که خانم‌ها پنج بار به همسرشان تلفن مى‌کنند تا بالاخره جوابى بگیرند یا زمانى که شوهرشان به دلیل پافشارى آنان براى دانستن علت ناراحتى بر سر آنان فریاد مى‌زند، احساس ناخوشایندی پیدا مى‌کنند و یا هنگامی که مى‌خواهند براى سپرى کردن اوقات فراغت با همسرشان برنامه‌ریزى کنند، همه دلایل خاصى دارد. دلیل این کارها، عصبى یا مضطرب بودن خانم‌ها نیست؛ بلکه، ما زن هستیم و طبیعت و ذات ما با مردان کاملا متفاوت است و در بسیارى از موارد خواسته‌ها و رفتارهاى ما اسرارآمیز و مبهم به نظر مى‌رسند و یکى دیگر از اهداف نویسنده براى نوشتن این کتاب، درک بهتر زنان است تا به این وسیله به توانایى منحصر به فرد در داشتن احساسات عمیق افتخار کنند و هنگامى که داراى این اعتماد به نفس و درک عمیق نسبت به خود باشید، آن زمان براى بیان خواسته‌ها و نیازهایتان به همسرتان شانس بیشترى دارید و همچنین در هنگام بروز مشکلات دلیلى منطقى به همسرتان ارائه مى‌دهید. لذت متن : زمانى که آقاى نیش و کنایه هر چه بیشتر همه‌چیز را به تمسخر بگیرد، شما جدى‌تر مى‌شوید و هر زمان که سعى دارید با او گفت و گو کنید، مجبور به دفاع از خود هستید، زیرا او در بى‌اهمیت جلوه دادن سخنان شما استاد است. در ارتباط با مرد نیش و کنایه زن احساس مى‌کند که به او بى‌احترامى شده است و اگر چه او این کار را به شیوه‌اى جالب و سرگرم کننده انجام مى‌دهد، راه‌حل: فرض کنید نزد مدیر عامل‌تان رفته‌اید و به او مى‌گویید: «باید درباره‌ى پروژه‌اى که روى آن کار مى‌کنیم، با شما صحبت کنم» و او با طعنه مى‌گوید: «اوه! کارمند کوچولوى من خسته شده؟» شما عصبانى مى‌شوید. زمانى که شما با نیش و کنایه و عواطف و نیازهاى همسرتان پاسخ مى‌دهید، او همین احساس را پیدا مى‌کند و... #mehranbooki #barbaradeangelis #psychology #Secretsaboutwomeneverymenshouldknow #Abadan #کتابفروشی_مهران_آبادان #روانشناسی #بابارا_دی_آنجلیس #کتاب #کتاب_خوب #خواندن #زنانه #آبادان #خرمشهر (at Mehranbooki) https://www.instagram.com/p/COKSi_PlSnO/?igshid=9schxrsyayxq

[raquelaurilia]

Love this quote. It’s so true. I think now more than it’s so important to be kind to one another. Photo Credit: @the_mrsg #kindness #love #peace #barbaradeangelis #barbaradeangelisquotes raquelaurilia #singersongwriter #countrymusic #adultcontemporary #newmusic #countrypop #instavideo #covervideos #livemusic https://www.instagram.com/p/CE9dUg3g5oO/?igshid=2gpnag0hsddh

[artoftheway]

9 Things to give up if you want to be happy

Things to Give Up to Become Happy Here is a favorite list that I like to meditate on. It is a list that will help you live a happier life. If you give up on these nine things you will have a more peaceful life and bring more peace to the people around you. You can spend a meditation session for one day on each of these on the list. The Need for Approval. If you are looking for approval outside of yourself you will never be happy. Just think about it one thing that you did will be approved by one person but not the next. "What other people think of you is none of your business." If you feel what you did aligns with your spiritual self then that should be enough. You will never find the correct approval from outside of yourself. If you try to get approval from other people to make them happy you will never be happy yourself. The Need to Impress Others. Why do people do this? Most of the time people do this because they do not think too much of themselves and have low self-esteem so they want to take the easy way out and get quick recognition from others to make themselves feel better. The only trouble with this is that recognition does not last long and does not really solve the problem. You would really need to become a person that naturally impresses other people and you will find that when you are you will have no desire to impress others and are whole/complete inside. The Need to Always be Right. Wayne Dyer has said, "Would you rather be right or at peace?" One time I remember in high school I have gotten into a big argument with someone over the lyrics of a song. I started jotting them down and another student recognized the lyrics and said he liked that song but corrected me on what the lyrics were. But I was 100% positive what I wrote down was right, he was 100% right that his lyrics were right and what started out as a bonding experience turned into a heated argument that left bad feelings on both sides. Was it worth it to be right? I don't think so. Dwelling on the Past. This is a bad one for me. Some people can handle it better than others though. Really, it happened in the past. It is done with, nothing can be done anymore about it except learn from it and move on. Read the Time and Money Quote to help you conquer this inner demon. Resistance to Change. When I read of this one I immediately thought of the book "Who moved my cheese?" by Spencer Johnson. One instance in this book a group of people were discussing their lives and one shared a story of the encyclopedia business his family was in where they were resisting change from paper to CDs and because of that they almost went out of business. Unfortunately, resistance to change is a common human reaction. This book has a duel story of two mice named Hem and Haw that go through the maze with their reactions to blocks along the way. The other part of the book is a group of people discussing the book and how it compares to their own lives. An excellent read to help you get rid of stumbling blocks. Negative Self-Talk. Why! Why fill yourself with negativity! Garbage in is garbage out. People do this on a constant basis and never feel fulfilled in life! Worse yet there are many people that do this out loud and are looking for self-pity. Limiting Beliefs. This reminds me of the quote from Michelangelo, "The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short, but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark." If you have limiting beliefs you can never achieve personal greatness. Do not think poorly of yourself but instead think of all the things you would be proud of what you have done, what you are capable of and you will get rid of your limiting self-beliefs. Focus is the key here. Blaming Others. Blaming others is a classic shift of responsibility. All this will do is keep you from fixing yourself and create anger and negativity with those around you. Especially the one that you blame. If you cannot accept responsibility and look inward you will live an unbalanced life and never take care of the true source of the problem. Complaining. Yes, you may want to vent to someone and complain to them and hope that you will find someone that is a good listener. In a Barbera De Angelis tape program about relationships the mistake men make when a woman comes to them with a problem is that they try to give suggestions on how to fix their question but all the woman really wants is somebody to listen to. They are not seeking answers. Yes, you may want reassurance and that will help you but sometimes complaining can become more strong than what it should be. Instead of complaining try thinking of what is good about this situation? It will help you focus on the positive and eventually help you solve the problem. Too many times people complain to others without looking within and realizing how minor it really is in the grand scheme of things. This inner-awareness will help you tremendously. Read the full article

[youmetjayson-blog]

#MorningMotivation #BarbaraDeAngelis #Courage #Happy https://www.instagram.com/p/ByIJTqkgaqo/?igshid=soji7lyyq6gu

[ivefoundwaldo]

“No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change.” —#BarbaraDeAngelis ************************************************************* Hey guys happy thursday! Whew, thank god this week’s almost over, cause I feel like it went super slowlyyyyy. Yesterday, I hung out with my best friend, and we had the most delicious pizza 😋. We’ve been so busy with our lives that I hadn’t had the chance to see her in over a month, but we’re making up for it by hanging out next week too 😉 This photo is the Altos de Chavon. It’s a theater that’s still in use, and they do concerts here! Fun fact: the first concert here was actually Frank Sinatra and....his drummer ended up having a heart attack on stage 😅 As always, I hope you having a wonderful day! Sending you love, strength and positivity 💕 (at Altos De Chavón DR) https://www.instagram.com/p/BpFddOzhz1j/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1kh2ugfimhyj9

[sinetos]

Love is a choice you make from moment to moment. #BarbaraDeAngelis #Barbara #DeAngelis #love #quote #sinetos #quotes (at Santorini caldera) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bmyn2s8Ha3h/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=nzxt1wsgrx65