There's a whole thing about making your 'x reader' character an oc in their own right
If the author didn't give the reader a personality with flaws and fuck ups, they'd just be a Mary Sue making for a quite frankly terrible story. I know people desire to see themselves in the reader but that's never going to be 100% achieved, there will always be someone out there who thinks "i would never do that" when they're reading your reader character
To go into x reader fics and expect them to be a clean blank slate is to go into the fic and expect no story at all, there's no story if the character is meant to contribute to every single reader with their actions, and that sense of entitlement is honestly really annoying











