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[lolita-tips]

I'm thinking about buying Diamond Honey's Cat and Rabbit fight JSK but I'm not entirely sure about it? It's cute dress and not very expensive either and it appeals to my cutesy and kinda gory side but? Thoughts? If I would get it I'd pair it with white bonnet, ivory wristcuffs and maybe some cute white sneakers (you cannot catch me in tea parties my feet will cry) Also congrats on getting engaged!

I think it’s a super cute and fun print but I think I would add a little more color into the coord to pull out the pink and red tones from the print. If you’re going for a less traditional lolita shoe, what about maybe doing boots like the characters in the print? I think the print lends itself to being a little bit edgy and punky in a way that boots would suit it really well. 

Also, thank you! 

[inukag]

If I understood Yashahime right protagonist is Towa and honestly I want to actually care abt her but I just can't I know I can't I do not care about Sesshoomaru and sadly that extends to Towa I just wish protag wouldve been Moroha or maybe one of Sango's kids I'm still gonna try watching it to find out what happened to Inukag

Honestly I felt the same way when the series was first announced, I kept thinking “wow Inuyasha and Kagome are the protagonists and their daughter isn’t the focus of the new series??” 😅 But to be fair, Sesshomaru is extremely popular so this is probably a smart move on their part (well, except for the discourse surrounding the twin’s mom lmao). 

But Towa and Setsuna aren’t only Sesshomaru’s daughters! Towa was raised by the Higurashis and Setsuna trained with Kohaku & the other demon slayers so they aren’t “mini Sesshomarus”. That makes them a lot more interesting imo. 

[rahimaldemir]

Oh thank god for defending kyle against the himbo thing! He has done some stuff that i think is dumb but he wised up and doing couple things wrong doesnt make him himbo also like you said he tells people off for dumb shit like that dude who wanted to make a flying device! Idk im just negative against the himbo thing when its about my two fav characters from different sources

People over apply the word twink, thicc, and himbo

Post they’re talking about

[rahimaldemir]

I'm so pissed too that Rahim and Jade died like the only 3 dimensional characters with Kyle just get disrespected like that?? Esp Jade?? I just pretend it never happened and wrote self insert AU where both Aldemir siblings are alive because fuck it I MIGHT add Amir to be alive too but we dont know about him enough and im mad Kyle never discussed the fact that he also was another GRE operative!! Never mind following endings im sorry im in love with kyle-

Let it all out, my friend, let it all out. This blog exclusively stans the Everyone Lives AU and stands in solidarity with you. You rock that self insert AU. Make the world your own.

[nyandereneko]

🧡💜🍒 for anyone you want and uhh mordecai!!

@securitycopswife since you gave me the option and I’d like to give all of my mains some love, I’ll answer these for both Shirou and Mordecai! Fluffy boys...with not much else in common lol

Shirou

🧡 - What's an unpopular opinion you have about your f/o?

Honestly I have no idea what kind of unpopular opinions there are about him lol...I don’t really feel that strongly one way or another about most things that have to do with him? Maybe just the idea that he could be romantically interested in someone like my SI lmfao...but then again, if people can ship him and Michiru or even the big bad, I’m sure there’s room in his big floofy heart for Nova :3c

💜 - How does your f/o and s/i flirt?

They just pick at each other a lot lol, but lovingly, if that makes sense? Their pre-relationship dynamic is like ultimate bffs, they just feel so comfortable and happy when they’re around one another. So a lot of the things they tease each other about or joke about probably end up coming from a place of genuine crush feelings/interest, but Shirou tries to keep his distance in that regard due to the secret side of himself that he doesn’t necessarily want Nova to find out about or end up suffering as a result of it...

🍒 - What are some headcanons you have about your f/o?

I haven’t thought of too many hcs for him lately, but trying to wade through my mind to dig some out of the abyss...oh, I hc that he wags his tail involuntarily whenever Nova’s around or she’s just brought up in conversation. That would only happen when he’s in his Beast mode, ofc, and he gets better about hiding it/playing it off after he realizes he’s been reacting like that because ~feelings~ he doesn’t want to acknowledge lol but I think it’s really cute. OH FHISLFES AND I FOUND THIS HC IN MY DRAFTS YESTERDAY...I’LL JUST POST IT HERE BECAUSE IT’S STUPID AND I LOVE IT SM. One of Nova and Shirou’s consistent struggles is fighting each other for the sleeping position at the end of the bed because one’s a dog and one’s a cat. They compromise by Shirou taking up the whole bed and Nova sleeping on top of him as curled up as she can manage to be. I didn’t even remember typing that up (that seems to be happening more and more frequently as of late) but I agree with my past self wholeheartedly and I think the idea is so sweet and therefore canon to my selfship lol.

Mordecai

🧡 - What's an unpopular opinion you have about your f/o?

That he could ever be sweet to and in love with my SI fhislfjesfs the ultimate unpopular opinion for all of my selfships...I don’t really think I have too many others, or if I do they’ve just managed to slip my mind because my thoughts have been in so many different places lately ;w;

💜 - How does your f/o and s/i flirt?

Mostly by just doing sweet things for each other lol...neither of them are especially skilled at flirting, or interested in it? Especially because Mordecai is unaware of/in denial of his feelings for a majority of their pre-relationship experiences lol. But he’ll do simple things to check on her and make sure she’s doing alright, he reassures her that he’s going to return from jobs so that she doesn’t worry about him being reckless and getting hurt/killed, if he notices she’s looking out of place/overwhelmed at a social event or party he’ll probably approach her and give her company and a reason to take a step back from the fray/not have to be pulled into it...just little things that show he cares and wants to make her happy even if he doesn’t understand why ;w; and Nova’s displays are similar, making him coffee the way he likes it, staying up with him and keeping him company if she knows he’s gonna be working late into the night (and he doesn’t mind her sticking around), stepping in when Mitzy starts giving him a hard time and she can tell he’s getting really frustrated or overwhelmed lol...a subtle but genuinely caring couple

🍒 - What are some headcanons you have about your f/o?

He’s actually a really good dancer and even good with instruments like the violin or piano, if given the chance to learn or play around with them. Mordecai is very intellectually minded, and I understand that, even if I can’t understand most of the stuff he says or reads or studies hfielsjfsle math is absolutely not my forte but to this man there’s almost nothing that brings him more happiness...good for him. BUT, that being said, I think that his intellectual leanings would also translate to him being good in other areas where that kind of technical aptitude could also apply...because believe it or not there’s a lot of overlap in the technical study of the arts, like how much math actually plays into the appearance of nature and how artists sometimes translate it to or utilize it in their art. I think Mordecai would pick up musical talents quickly, even if he didn’t want to or really understood what the point was. It would just be as natural for him as solving complex math problems lol...but whether or not that’s actually true, who cares, that’s why it’s a hc! 

[lolita-tips]

Is it one of the rules of Lolita to wear bloomers? Do you have to wear or own them? Currently when I'm wearing my lolita dress I use pastel pink shorts underneath to replace bloomers.

Shorts work! Bloomers are more fun and work with the aesthetic in the event that they happen to be seen, but the most important part is function.

[nyandereneko]

strawberry,coconut mango,key lime & cotton candy for saruhiko & maybe dazai if not too much! :3c

@securitycopswife thank you so so much for the ask friend!! It shouldn’t be too much, I’m unfortunately always looking for pretty much any excuse to talk about these wonderful men whom I love with all my heart and soul lol

Saruhiko

strawberry: before getting together, how did your F/O realize they had a crush on you? How did they act around you once they realized they were head over heels?

Saruhiko has the emotional sensitivity and awareness of a walnut, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t notice when he’s starting to get those warm, fuzzy feelings he doesn’t like and wishes would go away lol...he probably realized it the first time I smiled and was nice to him or something :’) the first time I made him feel like he mattered just as he was, without expecting him to be a certain way, or berating him for being himself...listening to him, making him feel ValidTM. He liked Nova enough at first glance to help save her from being arrested/kidnapped or continuing to be abused, so. He doesn’t necessarily act that much kinder after the fact, although he probably would without realizing it...showing favoritism and cherishing my company even if he doesn’t want to lol. Looking forward to and even looking for excuses to be around me/share my presence. Actually deriving some kind of simple joy/satisfaction just from seeing me smile, from seeing me happy, especially if I’m acting that way because of him/something he said/did. Ahfieslhfesl god sorry for being so stupid and SOFT I just love this man SO SO MUCH

coconut mango: what mementos do you and your F/O treasure?

:D well I’ve gone back and forth with it a lot but I like to think we have matching necklaces...one of those yin yang symbols but with cats, he keeps the black one (to remind him of me) and I keep the white one because it’s the other half lol. Very meaningful and precious and it just makes me so happy ;w;

key lime: how would you describe your self-ship’s aesthetic?

Other than the general shades of blue/purple color scheme that this selfship shares with some of my other ones, I tend to associate this selfship with warmth a lot, surprisingly. The idea of duality. Partially because of Saruhiko’s dual Auras (and the warmth he provides me both as a result of them and my love for him ;w;) and partially because of how much we influence each other. He’s the one person that makes me feel heard, who notices even the little things about me that no one else can or even could, because he’s suffered similar hardships/emotional abuse. I showed him how to smile again, how to feel secure in someone, and we both make sure the other knows that they’re the most, MOST important person in either of our lives...so we never have to question if we only come up second best yet again, so easily replaced :’) the duality of finding happiness and security despite our trust issues, finding sincere love that makes us feel fulfilled...hilshfes I got kind of off track but I hope that’s kind of an acceptable answer ;w;

cotton candy: post the last picture of your F/O that you saved!

Alright digging through my camera roll for these lmfao apparently I just so happened to save cat images of both him and Dazai, rip but LOOK HOW FUCKING CUTE HE IS...I STILL CAN’T GET OVER THE FACT THAT THIS IS OFFICIAL MERCH FHIELSFJLIEJFS

Dazai

strawberry: before getting together, how did your F/O realize they had a crush on you? How did they act around you once they realized they were head over heels?

Dazai just be like *zeroes in on this weird girl who clearly has a crush on him but is also terrified of him* “oh, interesting, clearly nothing could go wrong here” fhielsjfselfes but seriously I think he probably realized it after he and Nova spent more time together. He realized how lonely and like, worthless she felt, and he didn’t think she deserved to feel that way...and then the more they talked and got to know each other the more he started to care for her more intimately and now here we are :^) I don’t think he’d really act that much different than normal...he may he softer in private though, go out of his way to do more things to support and reassure her...he can be fairly caring/kind when it suits him, lol

coconut mango: what mementos do you and your F/O treasure?

I’m just gonna say the same as above, the matching necklaces, because that’s something I like to imagine I have with my f/os in most if not all of my selfships :D it works as long as I stick with Nova as my SI, and I don’t plan on changing that up any time soon, I’m just too attached to her lol

key lime: how would you describe your self-ship’s aesthetic?

Because of Dazai’s color scheme, he always makes me think of tea/coffee lol...coffee because of color and the amazing smell associated with it, but I default to tea as well because I don’t like the taste of coffee, I’m much more of a tea person lol. Also like forbidden love, from not being able to touch each other at first, an invisible barrier that’s always there both as a protection and a curse of sorts. BOOKS...BOOKS AND WRITING ALSO, LIKE, I CAN’T HELP IT LOL not when this series gives me the perfect opportunity to project all my writing feelings directly into it and it’s FITTING they actually BELONG THERE LOL...and eventually just lots of soft, quiet moments, inspecting and soothing each other’s emotional and physical scars, reassuring each other that we’ll always be there for one another, neither of us ever has to be alone or abandoned again...clearly a major theme in most if not all of my selfships lol 

cotton candy: post the last picture of your F/O that you saved!

here is the other kitty...honestly I don’t even remember where this official art came from but it was in my camera roll so. here you go

[giranswife]

If everything goes well youre seeing your Shiroe your husband your light of your life as birthday present thats so fucking good ash

Aaaaaaa yes yes!!!!!! It’s the best!!!!!! I swear to god I’m so excited I coild cry again and again. I know I’m gonna lose my mind whenever I see him. This just all seems to perfect, and I hope this is a sign that next year will be better. Bc I really desperately need it.