nyO need to post this with a reply ~ just thought I'd say I am mid way through your ask (makin me all wiggly eheheh) but am cookin because I'm trying to come up with the first time scenario yes 🙂↕️ I haven't considered it much before now n it's exciting n I wanna figure it out~ so alas, am not ignorin u
Also I hope you are taking breaks where you can and snuggling up with a certain porpol babie to rest your cute lil head as you go through your days ( ◡̀ ᴗ ◡́)و here should u need me~
If you find yourself so inclined as to respon to this, perhaps you could tell me how said porpol babie chooses to relax you? What things does he do and say~ how does he encourage / coax you into letting go of any stress or worry n melt into him hm?
my wife!!!!!! Wah! HELLO!!!! you sent this ask to me in mid-may. it is now -checks watch- the end of june. i am deeply sorry for the lag in response sobbles;;;; i hope during all this time zozai have indulged in many more times and now are on their 100th+ time.... and that there are less sad tears shed during these times..... mwahahah...... ⭐️💝
now. this is certainly a Question.... i am always very Shy and Anxious talking about this sorta stuff pertaining to myself but i want to be Less Shy and Anxious... bwah.. my answer is under the cut if you do not mindsies!!! eurhfyhxe TYSM FOR ASKING ZOIE :C i love you today too....... #onionlyweddedwives #soulmates #zoieco
one of the things that very much drew me to karasu's character is his ability to notice things about someone well before they say them aloud;;;; <- a trait i appreciate a lot wah.... as someone who is perhaps definitely on the quieter side about voicing their woes and tries to silently bury them urfhxjsds... but even if i don't say i'm stressed/sad/what have you and do a decent job of behaving happy--he would still be able to tell!! maybe it is something as small as a shift in my posture or the way i act more energetic than usual to compensate that is a dead giveaway to him.... i dunnooo!!!!!! (;▽;)
and i think early on in our time of getting to know each other, he would recognise this as something like: coco must have a difficult time opening up about her stressors and things that ail her, i can a) ask her about it point-blank or b) give her space and support her silently--for him to arrive at the conclusion that b) is probably the best way to go about it;;
he had tried a) once but learned that it not a wise option at all... after i spilled all my beans to karasu and became absolutely mortified by being so unpleasant and negative in front of this boy i like so so so much that i avoided him for nearly a month..... (´•̥ ω •̥` ) definitely not my best moment ah
and so!!!!!! i think he learns to pick up on my tells, though it comes very easy to someone as carefully observant and calculated as him, heh >A< he doesn't rush me or anything when i am evidently (to him) under the weather... perhaps he leans close and tilts his head a little like he's about to tease!!!! and say things like “i like you best when you're honest with me.” <- he knows it's not sustainable for me to keep managing my issues on my own so he tries to very slowly coax it from me like this.... it definitely does help me a lot!!!!
he is also a lot more touchy with me when he notices something is off--his chin atop my head or pulling me in for long hugs without explanation... and i think!! his voice would be much more low and steady, he realises hearing him speak is a great deal of comfort for me so he would use that to try to fill that aching silence in my mind perhaps!!!!! wah ;u;