Okay so so so.
I just love really soft Alpha's not those kinds you expect society to act like.
I mean these alpha s aren't gonna hold back loving cute things, cooking, and just being a geek or nerd!!!
Adoring their partner/mate so much, since sometimes society really is cruel, putting expectations on alphas to be "manly"
Good stuff!
In my au, the emphasis isn't on alphas to be "manly" because not all of my alphas are men. Similarly, not all of my omegas are women so there isn't an emphasis on being "feminine". Instead, alpha's are socialized to be self-assured/attentive, betas are taught to be earnest/loyal, and omegas are taught to be dedicated/proactive.
These are traits that aren't gendered but can also materialize a million different ways in a million different people, with common threads.
That was a bit of a tangent, but the moral of the story is good work and make sure you have some sort of reasoning behind why your alpha being soft is abnormal!