#bfmemesasks

[bfmemes]

I've been living together with my bf for two months now and aaahh I'm so gay and happy that I get to see him every day and cuddle and kiss him whenever I want to and it's still so surreal bc we were in a ldr before moving together and I'm... just so gay..

- mod jason

[bfmemes]

srry to dump this on you but i need 2 vent- rn im the one pouring the emotional labor into my relationship. i love my bf but he doesnt reciprocate. he barely makes an effort to do anything with/for me. he blames it on the fact that he’s “been in too many relationships back to back” (we’ve been exclusive for 7 MONTHS) but assures he loves me- he just wants “to chill.” i’m stuck in a cycle of being fed up with him, to idealizing what minimal efforts he does take & then pretending everything is ok.

dump him

- mod jason

[bfmemes]

I lov my bf

kin.

[bfmemes]

A running joke w my bf and I is that whenever I say I’m about to sneeze he rushes over and puts his hand right up to my face and says “give it here!” And slaps his hand like he’s ready to catch a baseball pitch

LKJASFLKJDKLASJ

[bfmemes]

i have a crush on this boy and i’m p sure he has a crush on me so i’m making a folder so i can put a bunch of bf loving memes so i can send him them if we ever start dating

GLKASJDLASKJD before my bf & i started dating i made a folder of bookmarks of things i’d wanna buy him if we were dating 

[bfmemes]

I was wondering!! do you know any blogs similar to yours? like s/o memes in general? :0 I've been having a hard time finding some good wholesome memes after going through your valid tags

sure! some of these aren’t meme blogs but do post lovey stuff or stuff abt relationships! 

@mlmtext @boyfriendmemes @romancememes @significant-other-memes @bftag @in-love-suggestions @lovecoremutual

[bfmemes]

I've been dating this guy I thought I was really into for a month and everything is going just great he is really really great but now I think I might not be into guys but I'm still not sure I've always thought I was straight or bi but after actually dating a guy I started struggling with my sexuality even more and I have no idea what to do

honestly it can be really difficult to figure out. it’s very hard to tell when your attraction is genuine. i used to have a bunch of really good resources for figuring out if you’re a lesbian but i seem to have lost a lot of them...i tried to find some similar ones anyway so hopefully these will help you

http://thatdiabolicalfeminist.tumblr.com/post/164526814159/common-experiences-of-lesbians-who-dont-know

https://ubiquitoussingularity.tumblr.com/post/137785176348/flesbian-signs-you-might-be-a-lesbian-you

http://positive-lesbian-vibes.tumblr.com/post/160027255602/how-i-recognized-comp-hetcoercive

https://closet-keys.tumblr.com/post/145685694488/how-to-know-if-you-are-actually-atracted-to-guys

https://veganscully.tumblr.com/post/165268015808/ive-seen-a-lot-of-people-struggle-with-the-idea

i am not a lesbian and don’t know what it’s like to struggle with figuring out if you’re a lesbian but last year i stopped IDing as bi and started IDing as gay and it was really difficult for me initially. it can be really hard to figure out what’s right for you and for me personally i didn’t know i was right til after i started calling myself gay. i’m sending you good energy and i hope you figure things out ok <3 if you wanna talk more you can always message us again or you can message me on my main ( @jasonptodd ). good luck

- mod jason

[bfmemes]

my bf found another person without even dumping me and i feel like shit because i wasnt enough for him and idk

ok FUCK him he's a bum and don't blame yourself!!! he's a fucking loser and i'm sending him terrible energy...consider him hexed