God....this is why I don't even call myself open minded/spiritual to people anymore.
Cuz I will meet people who claim that and 99% of the time they are that BUT....
then there's ONE issue they have CLEAR biases on ('gays teaching our kids to be gay', 'trans only go trans so they can molest kids', 'stupidity based on extremes', etc) and you're like
'You're a poser or hypocrite. Your choice.'
Fuck, a friend I was with for YEARS, even tho we had only good interactions, I called out for his bull shit. I was tired of going 'yeah, you're right' on everything, but then ignoring when he was...being obviously cruel. It is not toxic to call out toxicity. They like to confuse you with that, tho. Make you the bad guy for pointing out they're doing bad guy things...exactly like politicians.
And at first he was all nice about it, trying to be peaceful, but still saying ignorant ass shit in the end.
(That's what I love about 'smart' or 'spiritual' people.
They think because they are calm and cool and collected that they are not only on the high ground, but couldn't possibly be wrong.
As if someone calling another a dumb mother fucker was never accurate. Just because your emotions or temper don't come to play does not mean you're by default right. REMEMBER THAT.)
I called him out enough till he blocked me.
Did I make assumptions about him and his beliefs?
Entirely.
But that was entirely my point; THAT WAS EXACTLY WHAT HE WAS DOING AND DID NOT LIKE IT THROWN IN HIS FACE. HYPOCRITICAL DOUCHE.
(I told him how he probably lies to his kids about santa to keep the sparkle in their eyes. lol proud of that one).
Just....be who you claim to be. Not what you want to be...cuz then you can't improve if you believe your own lie.
Fucking posers. And that is to a VAST BY A HUGE MAJORITY of humanity.
You're scared to be truly seen, so you...(like this site) make..avatars of your 'best' moments...(never your worst, right?)