Oct 12, 2019
I Guess Coming Out to People Just Happens
I hate that when I bring up the topic of the future I don’t get excited. Who will I be with? Which guy will I get into an arranged marriage with? Which girl will I have to hide my feelings from when I fall in love because I can’t tell anyone in my family?
It hurts that I can’t tell my family about my crushes. It hurts that I can’t be openly myself. It hurts that I can’t be openly bisexual.
I’ve come out to four people in the past year, which is four more than last year. I’m glad that I did. But on this occasion of National Coming Out Day, you don’t have to come out to anyone if you don’t want to. I just want to say that you are valid and nothing can make you more you than you being you.