Valentine’s Day Questions:
Sexuality/how do they identify?: bisexual as fuck
Out or closeted?: very much out
How do they show love? Physically? Verbally? Another way: mostly physically. He’s very clingy and likes to cuddle, even those he platonically loves. He’s not afraid to voice his love, though
How do they receive love? Is it different?: he likes both physical and verbal affection. He’s very clingy and likes almost constant physical contact, but he needs the verbal reassurance and affirmation fairly regularly
Have they ever been in a relationship before? Was it a good one?: the one he’s in currently is the first and only relationship he’s had. He’s had hook ups and one night stands, but nothing really romantic or long lasting until now
Do they want to be in a relationship? Why or why not?: while he never considered it too much of a priority, he’s incredibly happy in his current relationship, and wouldn’t give it up. He was always focused on his music, but he finds it incredibly rewarding to love and be loved
Are they clingy?: incredibly clingy. with everyone he’s close to, romantic or not
Do they believe in love? In soulmates?: he absolutely believes in love (especially now). He doesn’t necessarily believe in soulmates, and has always been slightly skeptical, but he feels a little unsure now, given how perfect things have been for him and Harvey. He’s not entirely convinced that there wasn’t something else involved in their meeting and falling in love. (Especially given that he waited for Harvey to get over his abusive ex, despite not knowing him well, and having never been inclined to do something like that before)
Do they prioritize love? Why or why not?: he considered platonic love very important before. But now, he definitely prioritizes love and his relationship. It’s one of the most important things in his life
What they look for in a partner: Harvey. But seriously, he tends to prefer someone sweet, who doesn’t mind occasionally taking care of him. Someone attractive (to him, but that has plenty of definitions for him), and kind. For men, he likes it when they’re tall (or taller than him, at least), and broader than he is. It’s not a dealbreaker if they’re not, but it’s his preference.
What they don’t want in a partner: someone unsupportive of him and what he believes in. An asshole, to him or anyone else. Someone who’s unmotivated to do anything at all with their lives, or someone who tries to prevent him from doing what he wants to do with his life
Looks/things they’re attracted to: for men, height, being broad, someone who has a little muscle. He also likes ass, and nice hands, and he thinks tattoos are attractive. For women, it’s normally attitude, and confidence, and not taking any shit. He’s not exactly the pickiest when it comes to traits, but he definitely just has a kink for Harvey
Looks/things they’re not attracted to: overly dominant. He likes being dominated, but he doesn’t want someone controlling. Being an asshole, especially to someone who can’t fight back, or doing it to show off. Narcissism is another major turn off
Turn offs: toxic masculinity, assholeness, being too assertive/controlling, not listening to him, refusing to support or understand him, smelling badly
Turn ons: nice hands, neck kisses, neck biting, grabbing his thighs or ass, kissing or licking or biting him pretty much anywhere, hair pulling, when Harvey drives (no idea, he just thinks it’s hot as fuck), pet names (he really likes puppy), he thinks blowing smoke into Harvey’s mouth/vice versa is hot, smelling really good
Kinks: praise kink, bondage, marking, public sex, he’s got a thing for giving oral, hair pulling, choking, spanking. it might be faster to list kinks he DOESNT have
Hard no’s: toxic masculinity, over dominance, refusal to listen to him or give him attention, not checking if he’s okay, assuming he’s into something without asking (more pertaining to when he would hook up with people)
How do they know when they’re in love?: he just...knows. He’s only been in love once, and he was absolutely sure of it, even if the circumstances were weird, and the other guy didn’t even love him back at that point and was still caught up on his ex. He knows because it does feel like going home