#birth asks

[bigpushes]

for the birth asks, 5, 13, 14, if you haven't already answered them

5. Naked or clothed?

Clothed. A labor so urgent that all of our plans are abandoned. No laboring in the tub, no time to call for assistance.

Sinking into a squat right outside the bathroom door— clinging to the frame and groaning through gritted teeth as I give in to the urge to push, straining with all my might as my cunt starts to bulge between my thighs. Your frantic "are you pushing?!" gets lost in the haze of the primal need to bear down, and my roars of effort drown you out.

"Its coming," I grunt out, clawing desperately at my soaked leggings to try to get them off. They cling to my skin, absolutely unrelenting as the head begins to part my folds and push against the fabric of my underwear. "Holy fuck, its coming so fast!"

You scramble to kneel in front of me, letting me bear my weight on you as you work my leggings down to mid thigh. "Breathe, baby," you murmur, taking a deep breath and blowing it out in short pants. "Like this, remember?"

"Can't," I grunt, nails digging into your shoulder as I bear down against the pressure mounting in my pelvis. "Gotta... gotta pushhhh."

And I do just that, letting out a deep, primal scream as the lips of my cunt spread to allow the head to pass through. "Fuck, it burns!" My labia are on fire, stetched thin and bloodless as the mass of our overdue infant barrels down through my birth canal. "Mmmmph, fuckkkk." I gasp as I feel the head come to a full crown, desperately clutching at you as I struggle to catch my breath. "It's comingggg. Fuck, it's coming out!"

The head pops free in a gush of fluid and hangs between my thighs for a moment before a final push brings the baby into the world, spilling out into the gap of fabric between my cunt and my underwear.

13. Overdue or on time baby?

Overdue. 42 weeks, maybe even pushing 43. My belly hangs low between my thighs as I move, heavy and gravid and placing so much pressure on my cervix as I sway through my contractions, letting my lips fall open as I moan and vocalize.

You position me on the bed to birth—laid out on my side with one hand pulling my knee up towards my chest and the other clutching at the pillow behind my head, fingers scrambling for a hold as I push, screaming and wailing with effort as I tirelessly work to birth the massive infant. You tell me I'm doing well, that I'm opening up, that you're starting to see a bulge, but I know it's not true. I can feel the weight and the mass of the head grinding through my cervix, finally understanding the comparison of having a bowling ball wedged between my thighs.

Every estimation had placed this baby at 14 or even 15 pounds, and I feel every bit of it.

I pull my leg up even higher and curl around my belly, straining as hard as I can to pass the head through my cervix. To make any kind of progress at all.

"Fuck," I cry, nails digging into my skin. "Fuckkkk! It's too big!"

"Just push, baby," you tell me, your voice wavering a bit as you slide my fingers into my cunt, feeling around to check me. The head is still high up; your trepidation is written all over your face. "It... it's big, but you can do it."

I throw my head back and scream as I push again, knowing that we're in for a struggle.

"Too biggggg! Nnnnnnng, it's gonna tear me a-apart!"

14. What's your ideal birth scenario?

This has been asked a few times, and it's getting its own post soon!

[7cmdilated]

To Maya:

What's your favorite position to labor in? Do you like having physical support?

I never thought of having a favorite because it all hurt so much lol. I guess on my hands and knees with my husband pressing my back was the least bad since it was the best I could do for my back labor - posterior baby is no joke! but that was also when I realized I was hitting my breaking point because it just still kept getting worse and I realized nothing I or he does can truly help the pain.

Maya

[7cmdilated]

If she's up for answering questions yet, 3 for Sophie?

3. What would be your preferred setting?

I assume you're asking for Sophie's preferred setting for her own birth and not watching others' births. Though she did unwillingly get a front row seat to that as well.

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My preferred setting was in the hospital I've been going to for nine months for check ups! And being the only laboring woman in the room would've been nice.

-Sophie

[darkerrp]

egg + extra big baby + painful birth just wondering what would be inside that massive egg.

Likely a dragon, especially if we’re going with an extra big baby. It would take me days to fully deliver the dragon egg- all because of the large egg that keeps slipping back into me. Even if I squat…I can only go so low because of the egg.

[7cmdilated]

14!

already answered for myself so I'll have Dr. Anderson take this one.

Women make a surprisingly wide range of attire choices when coming in, even after labor has gone on a while. They always get a gown if they want but I let them wear anything as long as I can get in there and do my thing when I need to. Every so often I get patients who keep their skirt or pants or tights on and try to put it all back on after I check them. they usually last two or three checks before they ditch the bottoms.

I really like when they have their own top and/or bra on and nothing else. they're usually covered by a sheet when dressed like that, so it doesn't look so exposed, but I can get in easily. Wearing her own clothes wherever she can is always cute, like she's trying to keep herself grounded when going through this kind of thing, a very compromised modesty.

Dr. A

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To Maddie:

What sort of verbal pain reaction is your favorite?

I really love when the girl starts saying how much it hurts - it's as if she's trying to ask it to stop, like it's too much. That point where the moaning and enduring turns to bargaining. But of course, her body is out of her control and it'll just keep hurting worse.

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11. What about verbal? Hyping herself up, "I can do this," or complaining "Oh, it hurts, it hurts," or maybe begging, "Get him out, get him out!" How would you reply as Dr Anderson?

I have a personal connection and sympathy for when they beg me to get the baby out - I did the same thing! I'm always doing exactly what they're asking, getting the baby out as fast as I can, but I know how desperate it feels from Mom's point of view.

At the same time, it's really the only time I can take a direct role in getting things going. I can do things like break her water but that's still dependent on her body picking things up herself. But getting a baby out at the end, that's where I can physically take a hand to help it go as smoothly and swiftly as possible.

Dr. A

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To Dr. Anderson:

What would you enjoying doing to mom physically, such as physical support, medical procedures, help her reposition, etc.?

Don't tell anyone, but it's secretly satisfying when I stretch a patient's vagina a little bit and the baby's head slides out more. I know it hurts like hell (I've been there!) but it's so effective in getting mom over the finish line!

-Dr. A

(if you ask her as Maddie, you might get a different answer or at least different motivations!)

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