“But Astarion liked a guy! He’s gay!” Congratulations, you discovered pansexuality.
Also can we acknowledge that the one guy he says he liked and cared for enough to go against Cazador, quite literally resulted in Astarion being sealed away for a year? I’ve seen people mention that he “doesn’t mention anyone else” that he likes, but why would he??? The ONE time he felt something he ended up being punished for it in the worst way possible, and it’s said that was within the first decade of him being a vampire spawn.
It isn’t like he was really having a chance to explore romances with people. He’s still canonically pansexual.














