#blakelywintersfield

[rudeboimonster]

The noise I made when I saw this tag scared my cats gjflfkslfmsl

[screenshot of the tag i made reading: i might be too deep in digging through furry art stuff bc i forgot that balloon dogs are also like. Normal things]

art by @joyfulness03

sits so cutely. sorry to your cats. <3

[aro-culture-is]

Platonic love aro culture is overhearing your coworkers talking about how they can't understand the concept of "multiple best friends" because "you'll always like one more than the other" and "what if you had to choose between the two of them?" and wanting really badly to speak up and say "I have three best friends, I love them all equally, and I genuinely could not choose one over the other". But it's not your conversation so you just... sit there... wondering why allro people always have to rank people in their life.

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[secondbeatsongs]

oh dang!! i’ve had a computer’s hard drive die before and it’s not fun. i hope you manage to recover or restore everything you lost!

me too! right now my computer won’t even boot, so I bought another drive to replace it, and I’ll install my OS again and go from there. :s hopefully some of it can be saved, once I can look at it properly!

oh buddy...unfortunately, it was a SSD! only two years old, too. I didn’t know they could fail like this, but I should have been prepared - it was throwing block errors a couple of weeks ago, but at the time, I scanned it and it said it was fine.

heed my warning - if your hard drive says it has some bad blocks/sectors - back up fucking everything and prepare for the worst, just in case

[anothersuperstition]

(Sorry it's shit quality I was looking through my band blog archive so I had limited choice of pictures) is this the picture you were talking about? Maybe?? I haven't even gotten to last year in my archive yet so I might be able to find the one you're looking for if this isn't it

i found it actually, thank u tho!!

[aro-culture-is]

Greyro culture is seeing people talk about "friend breakups" -- where one of the friends didn't reciprocate the other's feelings, and the friend with feelings was like "I can't stand just being friends, it hurts too much, we can't be friends anymore if you don't feel the same." And then just sitting there like... "ok I've been the one who had feelings that weren't reciprocated too, and I literally develop feelings like that once in a blue moon, it's extremely rare and as a result extremely painful when the feeling isn't returned. But I just. Get over it. Because I value them as friends too and actually care about them, and I'm not gonna throw away a friendship because they don't reciprocate the romantic feelings."

And then everyone thinks YOU'RE the asshole. 😐

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[fuck-customers]

This is a bit of a fuck customers adjacent, since this didn't happen at my work, but as someone who also works in foodservice, I was annoyed as fuck about this: yesterday my friend and I got food at the popular Mexican-cuisine inspired "build your own burrito/burrito bowl/etc." place. We placed the order online for pickup. I went in at the time estimate it said it would be ready. I waiting 10 minutes more for my order to be done. It wasn't that big of a deal -- I can wait for food.

While I was waiting inside, however, at least three white women in their 30s were there, getting huffy that they'd been waiting for "so long", all complaining with each other, each approaching the cashier at some point to complain, and asking other people when their orders were supposed to be ready, myself included. When I told them I just kind of shrugged, because I literally do not care about having to wait, plus I have the social awareness to see that they're busy -- people kept coming in and ordering. There was a line, the entire time I was there, at the register. They were not only helping people coming in and ordering, but bringing out 5 bags every 10 minutes or so of online orders -- not just small bags either. Family sized orders. They were very obviously busy.

When they brought mine out, I asked the worker if they accepted tips, and ended up leaving them what I had in cash and telling them I appreciated their hard work. I wish I could've left more honestly, because if there were three Karen's while I was there, I can't imagine how many they dealt with that day alone. Honestly, fuck customers like them. If you haven't worked in foodservice you don't know shit.

[pyrchance]

Re: this post (https://www.tumblr.com/pyrchance/806775332039540736/alright-well-now-that-weve-all-got-out-hands)

It seems even the tumblr ads were impacted by tonight's show:

not even tumblr ads know how to process all of THAT

[vadre]

oh my god i just remembered,, i was working on this punk!john fic that was supposed to be a one time blurb bc someone requested it but. people liked it? and it became my most popular fic i think?? and i stopped writing it bc my heart wasn't in it tbh i was writing it for the sake of other ppl wanting me to update it but. it was called """punk!john""" straight up cigarette smoking parent hating stereotypical teenager god fuckin Bless honestly