#blue-joi

[blue-joi]

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Why is "reverse harem" the definition used for a girl with a harem of guys? Why can't it called a regular harem like when its one guy and multiple girls?  (unless harem is supposed to only mean a guy and girls, I don't get the need for a whole nother term for it just because a guy isn't at the center). There should be more anime shows with different kinds of harems that don't include wimpy, selfish, creepy male characters being surrounded by well-rounded female characters that are 1000x more interesting than the male protagonist. That formula is getting/gotten old. I would like to see a harem with all well developed characters that don't center around a boring average guy if there is a male protagonist. I think there should be more harem animes/shows with genders other than average boring cis-men as the protagonists.

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blue-joi replied to your post “blue-joi answered to your photo “My friend didnt believe i had this...”

Idk but Party City has them, especially close to Halloween.

i never think to buy them then

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blue-joi answered to your photo “My friend didnt believe i had this wig  how i look?”

Great! i need a white wig to add to my collection!

i found this one randomly like i cant find nice white one in stores??

[blue-joi]

I'm in chapter 8 of my novel!!! Things are getting tougher for my protagonists!

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I am so mad right now cause this is like the third time my friend has practically assumed or announced that I must be "anti-social" just because I don't want to have to hang out with her gang of friends in order to spend time with her. She literally told someone I just recently met that, one of my other acquaintances, and a few minutes ago assumed that I wouldn't want to have dinner cause I must "hate" people if I don't want to go to dinner with a group of people I'm not friends with but she's friends with in order to hang out with her. No bitch, I just don't like being in a group of people I have nothing in common with, who are problematic, and who I don't practically care for. If she says implies that I'm anti-social one more fucking time to me or in front of one of my other acquaintances or friends i will have some stuff to say to her. On top of that she had the nerve to go on about how she doesn't like Nicki Minaj just because she has had plastic surgery and because "Anaconda" isn't "intellectual" and she said that Nicki makes makes black people look stupid like what??? Can you tone down the internalized misogyny? I was too irritated to say anything so I just stared at her and kept saying no.

I thought college was supposed to teach you things but I guess I shouldn't expect that much from a white liberal arts school. They ain't concerned with the middle class black students having internalized misogyny and mouthing off full of respectability politics. I swear I want to just stay in my room sometimes to stay away from people's bullshit outside and inside of class cause at least I have y'all on here who I don't have to explain all this problematic shit to. Like I like my friend and she is supportive of me and more trustworthy than most people I've met in my fucking life but I don't want to deal with this shit from her and I'm annoyed.  It is so hard being friends with people who don't know what it feels like to be lonely and introverted. It's a pain in the ass to keep explaining that being with people for long periods of time tires me out emotionally and that I don't like big groups of people or being with groups of people, especially if I don't know them or really care for them. I don't want to be forced to apologize for not wanting to force myself to hang out with someone else's group of friends just because the one I know and like doesn't want to be separated from them for one fucking second in their life to spend time with other people one on one. So tiring.

[blue-joi]

~doing my laundry, doing my laundry, I'm doing my laundry, why the hell do I have so much reading to do this weekend???~