Reply-Reply to blurds: The Coziness of Evil
in what world is that not what evil is
Fair. I guess, for me, it’s a question of emphasis, like: exploring this particular sort of very commonplace and banal evil, rather than presenting him in the trophic ideal of “evil overlord” ala something like Darkseid.
One of the posts I started on HtN right after reading it is actl on this but I never finished&posted it cuz of *vague gesturing* but his evil is very much that “dad” evil? Like: the seeming-passive way he dominates the ppl around him while masking his disinterest and laziness as “coolness”; his extreme vanity and how it shapes pretty much everything around him; how he’s just decided to be OK with vast injustices so long as they enable his life and goals, to the point he doesn’t even bother to defend them; his obsession with the life of his youth and how that not only blinds him to the modern day(and his destructive role in creating and maintaining it), but also to the damage he’s causing it and the people around him, and also to the fact that his grudges no longer matter cuz the things he’s motivated by no longer exist(like: it’s p obvs to me he’s trying to punish those he considers responsible for the apocalypse, but they’re long dead. He’s drowned numerous galaxies in millennia of imperialistic war and brutality to punish people he’ll never, ever reach for something no one else even remembers).
I guess what I’d say is this is an evil, writ large, that most ppl are intimately familiar with, writ small, within some of the people they’re closest to and love the most, and emphasizing that aspect is more interesting that presenting him as “just” an evil intergalactic overlord. Like: he very much IS an evil intergalactic overlord responsible for the murders of literally thousands of worlds and probably trillions of people resulting thereof, but he’s also your dad, and that big evil is intimately and inescapably connected to the less-visible evil that makes your boomer-dad so infuriating to talk to about politics and society because he’s 1)been pretending the world’s fundamentally still 1976 for the last 40 year, 2)cares more about the convenience of Amazon delivery than the vile abuse and social destruction it creates, and 3)cares more about whether His School or Rival School wins the gatorbowl every year than whether nazis are working to create a blood-purity slave-society under his nose. He obviously “cares for you” in some(probably narcissistic) way; he’s fun; he loves puns; he’s easy to trust and be around and talk to; and he’s overtly polite and respectful to women; but his unthinking misogyny, selfish willingness to put his comfort before others emotions, and arrogant unwillingness to actually hear what he’s listening to or every really change, is why your mom divorced him(or, in this fictional instance, has led him to build his whole empire on the constant exploitation of a woman he claimed to “love”, as a power-source, after he stole her agency from her by “killing” her, exclusively to please his friends).