#boffed

[figf-blog1]

SWEET ANGEL HAS HER COOCHIE BOFFED

[kingcheddarxvii]

how do you do

Sigh..... my best, I think, but is that really enough?? *stares into the night sky*

[tommytv]

I am speechless

in a good way i hope

[kenziecore]

hi omg so i saw that u reblogged that bisexual ask and i just wanted someone to talk about it with cos you expressed you feel the same. i always feel like i'm not "really" bi, purely cos of the stigma around it wtih my family (who often claim it doesnt really exist because "how is it possible???") and im almost tricking myself into thinking that im not. albeit, i am more attracted to males romantically and sexually but i am also sexually attracted to females (but prob on a less intense level)

PART 2: soz fk i need to keep going with this!!! like i always hear that it’s normal to have sexual thoughts about the opposite sex and i always find myself ruling it down to that but idk they’ve become a lot more frequent and ive become more comfortable (in my own head) with the idea of having sex with a female and it’s really fucking confusing (not in a biphobic way just in a noraml “what is this” kind of way). i dont even know what the answer is myself anymore

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omg i understand everything you’re saying!!! i’m asexual, so i’m not down with the whole sex thing with any gender, but yess i feel you. it’s hard to sort out my feelings for guys vs for girls. like, i also feel like i’m more into guys and than i am into girls, but i find girls very visually pleasing (basically i like to look at hot girls). but it’s like, i’ve only ever been in one relationship, and that was with a guy, so i always end up thinking am i really bi???? or am i doing this, on some level, for attention???? if’s fucking confusing because I KNOW i like girls but also boys and i dont know!!! (bear in mind i’m not just into men and women…) and i see stuff on tumblr about “fake bisexuals”/”bi for attention” all the time and it just feels like a slap in the face. :/ i’ve had to unfollow people for this because i just get so uncomfortable about myself and my sexuality and it triggers a lot of self-doubt, something that’s common in bi people.

(the moral: never ever hate on bi people, even if you agree with the whole “fake bisexual”/”bi for attention” stigma, because your words always have an impact and it’s so, so damaging)

it’s also normal to have to become comfortable with the idea of having sex with someone of your gender, because gay sex is something that’s seen as not normal or even deviant in this heterosexist society. it’s quite the contrary - any sex or no sex is normal and fine, if it’s between consenting adults!

you don’t have to feel weird if you’re more attracted to another sex than you are the same sex. there’s no right way to be bi. bisexuality is the attraction to two or more genders, and that can be in different ways or levels! there is no right answer. be true to yourself and what makes you comfortable, even you have to do a little soul-searching to figure how to do that!! (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧