Idk how freaked I would be about skydiving. You also mentioned surfing right? Idk what's up with me but I'm beggining to fear the sea as well, probably even more than the heights . Like I feel like I am on verge of a panic attack just by seeing a gifset of the deep sea. I begin to imagine what would be like to really far way from the land and how every direction that I would to look there was only going to be water and no ground.
Yup, I totally get what you mean. And it's just so freaking good to be able to get really passionate and excited about something and not caring about people judging you about it.
(and I totally loved how you got passionate explaining your answer )
And on that note, I'm answering your question.
I think the question I hate the most is when people ask me "why" without really wanting to know, like when it's not a genuine question, they are not really interested about "why I like that thing" or "why I study that subject". They are actually looking for something to judge me, to make fun of me and all that. When I was in high school (and still to this day) people come to me and they go like: "Why do you want to be a physicist?! And a TEACHER?! Are you crazy? That's not gonna bring you money you know?" And "Why do you watch that show?" And OMG, the one that bugs me the most these days: "Why do you care so much about that dog?!?! It's just a dog, you know?!"
It's a shame I don't usually curse in my own language, really.
And maybe that's one of the reasons I asked you for your whys. I genuinely like to know the people's reasons (when there's one) behind their choices and stuff. It's like step one to a friendship you know? Having genuine interest about the other one. (not meddeling eyes, but curious and carring eyes, you know?)
Alright, I guess that's it :)
(and she also has the best hugs so she is sending you one of those too)
I swear to god I will smother the people who asked you those questions regarding Astrid with a million pillows like what the actual heck? That is SO rude and inconsiderate and "just because [they]'ve got the emotional range of a teaspoon, doesn't mean we all have." >:///
Yea, I get it. It gets on my nerve sometimes too when people ask me a question and why and stuff and then like look away while I answer and/or laugh about my response right afterwards. Like dude, why ask if you really didn't want to know or already know that the answer is not gonna fit your personal "mold" of acceptable? Please save your breath and find something else to do with your time that's not making fun of other people and judging them for their decisions. Like dang.
It really is a shame. I don't curse much either except in certain situations and when I get really really pissed off, but like, if you exploded with curse words towards the people who undermined Astrid's presence I will completely stand beside you and back you up with some colorful vocabulary of my own >:///
Absolutely, showing genuine interest in another's interests and choices is one of the first steps in the foundations of a friendship with them. I stand by this as well and I am so glad that you consider me as one of those people with which you want to know more about.
Iwysm bookie 📚💙💙 Thank you so much for these asks.
(And you Astrid 🥺 I wanna take her out on a walk.)