Hmm so. I think I'm probably not ace after all, since I realize I have experienced sexual attraction before and to an acquaintance at that. Dunno what I am exactly.
Super lonely I guess pfff
Uh, but now what? Any time I would see mention of asexuality on my feed it would be because some puritan was being a prick and using aces as a shield. And sometimes I'd be like hey I'm asexual and we don't all believe that shit and it hurts us too actually.
But if I'm not ace I can't say that anymore. And some people say they're ace and thay they do believe that puritan shit. So I'd be like. Allosplaining or something.
It always raises my hackles when someone pins puritanism on asexuals, whether it be by acephobes, puritans, or asexuals themselves.
but what do I do about it?