cindy: now this may come as a surprise (sarcasm) but cindy actually always had a pretty wild side to her waaaay before she was embraced. she loved going against the rules and especially let loose everything she had in her when she was in college away from her family. im still workshopping the details of her childhood and early adulthood but it's the typical story of 'very conservative and strict parents breed overachieving sneaky kids'. this to say cindy has a lot of experience in sex, drugs, alcohol, and all about partying with crowds that may not be the safest environments to be in at a young age. if you asked her though, it's all just "how it was back then"… nonetheless. as kindred this isn't too different.
cindy in her unlife is a lot more career-focused, what with how she has to manage her talent scout agency and also delicately balance her weight as a eccentric personality within vampiric society's politics (aligning with the camarilla but also essentially offering fealty with whoever gives her a good price). she is perfectly aware of the limits of her technically dead body - she doesn't care. sometimes she enjoys a good smoke and sometimes she also enjoys a good fuck. there's not a lot to it, what she thinks and expects from sex as a vampire. she's also the type to balance her BOL usage carefully since her humanity isn't overtly high but not that low either, and if she uses BOL to have sex you better know she spends all of those hours getting freaky in the sheets !!!! she is NOT wasting time!!!! she likes to HAVE FUN!
besides her preferences in partners (she particularly enjoys younger people in their 30s minimum that are fairly masculine and virile to her taste) cindy is all about the risk. she's fucked in public before, she's fucked in unsanitary spots where maggots crawl on the floor, dirty club bathrooms, had someone snort coke off of her body while they were having sex at one point, the whole nine yards. truthfully there isn't much she wouldn't do besides like, the classic line drawn at pissing and shit. LOL she particularly enjoys the risky public sex part though and especially has a whole thing about fucking while at a prestigious event like a gala or a premier. she likes the idea of getting fucked up and fucking someone else up while all dressed fancy and in designer clothes. it really Hits That Spot. also car sex
for more specifics cindy is a very selfish sex partner in the best way, but if you satisfy her she will return the favor thrice as intensely and she knows what the hell she's doing (bc as i mentioned her previous human sex life was quite, well, colorful). that said usually she likes to be on the bottom and is like, not quite a switch? but she's not submissive in a "completely giving herself away to her partners" kind of way. she's submissive because she Lets you dominate her (she is still a ventrue, power play is always involved regardless what she tells you) and because for an hour or two getting thrown around is fun and exciting. she does have a bit of a thing for ghouls specifically for this reason because she just loves playing with the human sentiments for sex she used to be so familiar with, in others. it's a whole thing .ummmm
she doesn't particularly care for pegging or toys. maybe a vibrator or something sometimes but it's not her thing. either stick it in the front or the back or use your fingers or mouth, she prefers it the old fashioned way LOL she also likes to finger her partners btw. pussy and or ass nothing is off limits with her. oh yeah also she loves loves LOOOOOVEEEESSSSSSSS drinking blood from her partners (hence why she prefers ghouls also she wants to avoid blood bonds like the plague)
viva: now viva is what you may call a Gentlemanly but Also A Bit Selfish kind of Stone Butch. sex for her even in life was kind of sparse and not really all that there was (in her opinion), and was generally more of a romantic that had a lot of sentimental situations that rarely, if ever, turned to sex, which were one-night stands that didn't lead to anything afterwards. she's kind of the type that likes the chase and then lets go when the chase is done. lol. anyway as kindred this isn't different, similarly to temerice she is a servicing top who is also fairly dominating but in a firm guidance type of way, not in the sense she gets what she wants without asking. she's all about consent (her predator type IS consensualist so) and like, pushes boundaries when she knows it's something that was agreed upon and that she is comfortable doing.
viva enjoys giving it to others firm and rough, or gentle but intense, depending on her partner's needs.
he generally just kind of likes giving people what they want without putting his own personal feelings in the mix. she just likes to see people squirm and for this fact he is an intense starer. like his eyes are NOT coming off of you, perhaps this is the sole thing he's a bit forceful about in which he demands to be able to see the face of her sex partner at the moment. and well this is toreador blood at play i think because while very intense her gaze is really something else and it's hard to not let her look!
she doesn't like being touched intimately in the slightest, she will be tolerant towards a suggestive like, touch over her pants' crotch but try more than that and she's already over it and going to completely skip that encounter. this doesn't mean he is against being naked during sex, btw, but it's rare to see him without at the very least her bra and her boxers (even better if she can keep the pants). now to be realistic jeans aren't comfortable for sex so she often does remove them, but yknow.
viva never really uses blush of life, again, not exactly the type to garner pleasure from sex. she finds the kiss inherently a thousand times more erotic and sexual and orgasmic than any type of intimate touch has in her life so for her that's enough. when her partner is close to climax she is in a way closer to the anticipation of drinking from them, which for him is like, exactly he same as an orgasm not just because well. that's the rules of vtm, but because he just REALLY likes drinking blood during a passionate intimate moment! for him it's so romantic! she finds it addictive!!
so yeah for her it's def a dom/top stone situation without a possibility it'll budge. now i say all this but just to be clear even then her sexual encounters are preddy sparse. usually they don't evolve more than make-out sessions in back alleys after a cigarette with the object of her sanguine (ha ha) interest. for it to end up in full on sex they really need to be… well.. interesting!
viva's main preferences during sex are all giving situations, so she likes using a strap-on (with creative dildo alternatives too if her partner wants diversity), her fingers, her mouth, though really as long as it doesn't hurt her partner she doesn't really have a hard limit (besides he basics of more hardcore kinks, she just ain't into that). rarely has sex with other kindred tbh it doesn't interest her. what happened with diamante is a special case and nowadays they don't have sex like they initially did, and doesn't help that viva kind of gives a really big cold shoulder to anyone that tries to pursue her for more than One Special Night. Gentlemanly But NOT Chivalrous Butch
barbie: where do i even begin with this fucking freak. and i dont say freak bc hes a Nosferatu i say freak bc he was one even BEFORE the embrace (why else would've he been turned into a nossie, cmon). a homewrecker with a special appetite for married women that was obsessed with being as stealth as possible during decades where the minimal gender noncomformity beyond what was accepted was not only rare but also like, kind of seen as weird. extremely self obsessed with his image and doing everything by the book while pumping himself full of steroids as well as always going after women who were mysteriously engaged with a partner (preferably a man). like he is a despicable little thing to begin with. he was slinging dick (in the human days, huge clit, i guess) left and right even before being embraced…… definitely explains why he was welcomed to that specific clan to begin with.
now as kindred things r obv different. 1) well he doesn't have a clit to sling around anymore because he has a "tzimisce-crafted bottom surgery hog" (his words not mine) 2) as Nosferatu not only is it impossible to pursue beautiful married human woman but kindred outside of his own clan often also find him revolting so you know there's that. but barbie's ego never left and in fact it only seems to have gotten bigger in his years as a Nosferatu. his desire to show off his body is always there and wearing skintight pants that leave very little to the imagination is his favorite thing (not for you boys not your fucking business. beautiful and/or grotesque ladies feel free to look.). so for him it's a bit different. sex is hard to come by when your BOL isn't very accessible time-wise and your humanity isn't exactly super high, so putting aside actual intercourse (i'll get to it in a sec) i wanna talk about barbie's masturbation habits because it's usually what he does when he is in the particular mood for some tomfoolery, and has a clear schedule in nights where he doesn't have shit to do. barbie is an old-school butch, he loves to look at pinup ladies and loves to use his imagination. not that porn doesn't work but for him the lack of aestheticism kills any and all sexiness. so usually magazines or saucy photo albums do it for him -- to top it all off he kind of really likes to watch himself in the mirror, and god knows how many times he has had to clean off that poor thing in his room . his stamina is crazy and he can go for like, maybe 3 or 4 times in a row, with no breaks. WITH breaks, god knows how many times. sometimes he also likes to pleasure himself by using the help of toys to put them in his buttt to be straightforward idk how else to say this in a way that isn't funny. literally fingers in his ass sunday.
ok well masturbation aside what about him during sex. well again he is a FREAK! in life barbie used to be a strict dom/top, he loved completely dominating the women he had sex with and giving them their biggest orgasms while he also did. in unlife it's not very different but he actually evolved into being more of a true switch, so like, he can do it all, bottom/top, sub/dom. he can sling his thing in your ass or you can put something in his. it's really nothing off limits also bc since he had a lot of time to masturbate and experiment he is definitely more open minded about it than he was before. it helps that he also has developed into loving BDSM culture, it's basically his life even when he isn't thinking about sex. he loves to dress like a gimp, he loves doggy masks, he loves wearing cages and getting thrown around by leashes or smacked by paddles. he also likes sounding by the way just fyi if you care. obviously this is repayed bountifully by him also liking to give all of that and then some. he is not gentlemanly, he is not the type to offer a night of passion. he is here to fuck like a beast/be fucked like a beast and you can expect nothing more, nothing less. dirty talk galore that can be equally parts goofy and serious (he does like to make things a bit goofy from time to time, since he learned that safe words and lightening the mood make sex more fun actually). in terms of caring for his partners he kind of really fucking sucks . he is awful actually . like when he's done he's done goodbye. no nice cuddles or shit he's got shit to do and a dick to clean. he's terrible! but he knows some people love him for it, and it makes him even more terribl not sure whom it may concern but his nipples are crazy sensitive. also same for his asshole. (this concerns ranx mostly)
the only woman he's ever went toe-to-toe with in terms of sex is ranx, tbh. she always keeps him on his toes and she seems to be fucking obsessed with him in a sexual AND violent way which, knowing him, makes him not only extremely confident in his jackass self, but also makes him uncontrollably horny sometimes. they often fight for dominance before any fucking actually happens, and he thinks it's genuinely he most erotic, intense, tantalizing ritual ever. getting to fuck her or her getting to fuck him back are both perfect outcomes or him because as long as some pleasure happens he's all for it. let's smack his balding head while we're at it