Well.. it is slightly long haha. My situation is that there's this guy named Nick, and I had a crush on him in the beginning of the year. I didn't even want to date him, i just wanted to get to know him. A friend of mine told him something and ruined that for me. That happened months ago. Now when he talks to the people in my group while I'm there, he ignores me completely. I want to change it so bad, like it wasn't my fault. We had a lot in common and I just want to be his friend... Sigh....
Okay the number one thing that's most important is time. You have to give him time to process what your "friend" told him. That doesn't mean he doesn't want to get to know you, he just needs time. and you have to make sure he knows that you aren't interested in being in a relationship with him, and then when he knows that, it will be easier to get to know him. Second thing, this person who told him something that ruined it for you is NOT your friend. Friends don't do that to other friends. The first step is to talk to this boy and let him know you just want to be friends. If he doesn't take it, then he isn't good enough to be your friend anyways. :) STAY STRONG. MOVE ON. there are better people and better things to be doing. :)
