The 10 Precepts of the Serious Buddhist Practitioner
The practices listed below are typically observed by lay Buddhists during retreat, auspicious days, or other Buddhist holidays, but to observe even two (or one!) of these precepts still brings considerable merit and good karma. Very pious upasikas (lay followers) observe them every day.
1. Do not accept or deal with money. 2. Avoid high chairs or very luxurious beds. 3. Forgo perfumes, garlands, and cosmetics. 4. Abstain from singing, dancing, or theatre shows (TV and movies are probably also covered). 5. Refrain from eating after noon, although drinks and smoothies may be acceptable. Some practitioners will avoid milk, considering it rich enough to be a sort of ‘food’. The pregnant, young, or very ill would of course be exempt. 6. Stay away from intoxicants! 7. Don’t lie under any circumstances— even as a joke!— unless by lying, you can save the life of a person or other sentient being. 8. Do not be unchaste. 9. No stealing! 10. Absolutely no harming or killing!
…Buddhism isn’t about long lists of do’s and dont’s. Unless a member of the monastic community, a Buddhist really isn’t required to follow any teaching or ‘rule’ if it doesn’t feel right. And there are plenty of Buddhists who, for whatever reason, don’t even adhere to the 5 precepts. But if they can follow even one, then that is a positive thing. Buddhism, as a whole, is very open, loving, patient, and forgiving. If you feel that Taking Refuge may be right thing for you, then do the research, hit the bookstores, and plan a visit to a Buddhist Temple if there’s one in your area. And above all, good luck on your spiritual quest! Remember: it is not religion that gives someone a pass to heaven. One can be devoutly pious, or Jain, or Muslim, or even atheist, but NONE OF those things determines your entry to heaven. It is the compassion and love found within your heart— that, and that alone.