Re: the Buckley-Diaz Family discord server not being a safe space for disabled people.. Unfortunately I can't get access to screenshots of those two hours because she deleted them. So rhia you know you're wrong. Interesting.
1. When she initially kicked me. If you're so offended by being called an ableist you ban someone... hmmm
2. The context for me "sneaking in" based the starboard it very much looked like they were making fun of the autistic headcanons so I picked up a reaction role to see. (Shockingly it was just some incomprehensible conversation about fruit. But the choice to star was still interesting)
3. Our dms. Once again if youre this offended by being told you're in the wrong...
Also here's some messages from the gen x chat before I was banned
1. The first message is clearly about the conversation about ableism. Which btw started with my friend (who is disabled) saying she doesn't like Shannon bc shes ableist which rhia took a LOT of offense to for some reason and went on for two hours about what is and isn't ableist as three disabled people went "you're wrong" and she steamrolled over them. She also made it a rule after this that no one was allowed to bad mouth shannon where she could see.
2. I'm not going to pretend to know what goes on in her head. Either she thought the randomness is funny or it was pointed at the autistic canons idk you're gonna have to decide that for yourself. But I will say the starboard is not used much. So take that how you will.
The bottom line here is im not out to "cancel" anybody. Im not one to make callout posts. I have absolutely nothing to gain from this. I just think disabled people in the buddie fandom should know if their opinions are unwelcome and their experiences dismissed in a space before they join.