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#ButtIsItTrue? We get loads of questions about cum (see what we did there?). This week's inquiry came about because someone couldn't find an answer and was genuinely curious... Is it bad for your body to keep cum inside of your bum/anal cavity after intercourse or should you make sure to go to the bathroom and let it out? I’ve noticed discomfort when I don’t let it out almost like my body knows there’s something foreign inside me that it wants out! 🙅🏻‍♂️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ What do we think? It's probably more of a post-intercourse reflex. The 💦stimulates the normal evacuation process and that’s the sensation your feeling. Cum in and of itself is made of natural substances and doesn’t need a true post-sex wash. Though many in our community do clean internally to remove all excrement. Remember: ejaculate can cause STDs and it’s probably more so during the act of sex that causes the transmission, but one never knows. That said, @DrEvanGoldstein thinks it’s just more about personal preference. We even know of some people who leave cum on their face overnight as a facial mask. No joke! 💆🏻‍♂️ #GetBehindBespoke #DoctorsOrders #Monday #LGBT #LGBTQ #Queer #Instagay #Health #Wellness #Gay #SexEd #SexualEducation #FBP #FullBottomingPotential #LongLiveTheBottom https://www.instagram.com/p/Bxr4ez2hO9W/?igshid=8eia98idm9s5

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With all the recent #Coachella news, we thought it was apropos to discuss... #ButtIsItTrue? - Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV) type-1 is beyond common in our community and can for sure be an anal irritant, specifically if your a lover of giving and/or receiving rim jobs... True as shit, unfortunately, it's not only type-2 that can affect the genital region. But do remember that persistent anal irritation can be a symptom and bloodwork alone will miss the diagnosis. STD screening should include the usual bloodwork, but, more importantly, oral and anal swabs and urine collection. It's key to make sure the swabs include herpes. We are oral and anal creatures, so if you lick away, then please test locally at the source. It only makes sense, right? And who wouldn’t want to lick? 😉Be sure to check back for tomorrow's #TalesFromTheTail for a more in depth discussion on this nasty fucker. #GetBehindBespoke #DoctorsOrders #Monday #LGBT #LGBTQ #Queer #Instagay #Health #Wellness #Gay #SexEd #SexualEducation #FBP #FullBottomingPotential #LongLiveTheBottom (at Empire Polo) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bw19I9WHwDA/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=280fsh717x6e

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#ButtIsItTrue? — when eating ass, any 💩 you may ingest will make you sick… totally a myth and thank the lord 'cause lip-smacking into the rim is a wonderful sensation for all parties involved. Now, if your partner(s) is contaminated with bacteria, viruses and/or parasites, that’s a different story. But the reality is, if you are coupled up, you are sharing germs in many ways — not just rimming. It’s the random hook-ups that you should be more careful with because they may be contaminated without you even knowing it. So what’s the secret? Unfortunately, @DrEvanGoldstein doesn’t know the right answer. People mention a latex barrier. That doesn’t seem sexy now does it? @DrEvanGoldstein wants you to go into every encounter understanding the potential it may have and sometimes, when the risk is noted to be to high, to partake in other sexual acts of pleasure. Of course, please add showering post-play, along with a Listerine gargle, to decrease any unwanted consequences. And if any gastrointestinal issues arise, seek medical attention and notify your partners so that everyone can receive appropriate treatments. The more you know, the greater chance of better engagements, not only for you, but also the community at large. #GetBehindBespoke #DoctorsOrders #Monday #LGBT #LGBTQ #Queer #Instagay #Health #Wellness #Gay #SexEd #SexualEducation #FBP #FullBottomingPotential #LongLiveTheBottom https://www.instagram.com/p/BtLoL_3HAA9/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1cq7vm15olmij

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Are you a snack or are you looking for one? #ButtIsItTrue? - protein supplements help bulk your muscle size, but can they also bulk your stool? Absolutely, and not always in a good way. Shit-clogging (read: constipation) may lead to dilated anal veins (hemorrhoids) and anal tears (fissures), stemming from the increased pressures required to evacuate. Now, combine that with your great leg workouts and you've got a recipe for disaster. So be cautious with how much protein you consume or supplement it with tons of water, fiber, and/or stool softeners to ease the process. Also, try and relax your actual asshole when you're contracting your glutes during squats and similar exercises. This will decrease the tightness that many develop over years of heavy training. #GetBehindBespoke #DoctorsOrders #Monday #LGBT #LGBTQ #Queer #Instagay #Health #Wellness #Gay #SexEd #SexualEducation #FBP #FullBottomingPotential https://www.instagram.com/p/BsnojLiHA_O/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=18l3jnxmogqu1

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#ButtIsItTrue? - Eating ass is contagious, literally. Yes, for sure it is simply an amazing addition to one’s sexual repertoire (both for the receiver and giver), but it can also have negative consequences. That annoying itchy, non-healing small cut or ulceration that appeared a few days post-lick can be both an activation or reactivation of the herpes simplex virus, types I and II. Full swabbing and evaluation with the initiation of a therapeutic anti-viral called Valtrex is warranted. And if it is a common recurrence, then be pro-active with daily preventative dosing of the same medication. Another easy addition to the post-sex regimen is the use of Listerine mouthwash rinses, along with immediate showering. Who doesn’t love to eat ass? We all do, for the most part, but the key to success is understanding not only the above ramifications, but also that if you eat enough, you will, unfortunately, contract some sort of infection. No shame behind this at all. That’s why we at Bespoke Surgical are committed to you and your sexscapades. Prevention, treatment, and community. We got your back. #GetBehindBespoke #DoctorsOrders #Monday #LGBT #LGBTQ #Queer #Instagay #Health #Wellness #Gay #SexEd #SexualEducation #FBP #FullBottomingPotential https://www.instagram.com/p/Brfs4qFnhoO/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1swjv3oh0txx9

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#ButtIsItTrue? - Internal anal lumps, found during self-examination, at the 3, 6, 9, and 12 o’clock position are abnormal... Not exactly. Though if one feels them, a complete anal exam should be undertaken, consisting of a pap smear and a thorough internal anoscopic examination. But back to these lumps -- they are known as hypertrophic papillae and are totally benign. So don’t worry. They form from the junction of two cell types, 3cm into the anal orifice, with this mending sometime leading to that extra tissue development. FYI: the examination is warranted since sometimes HPV can reside on the tips, leading to anal warts or swelling and discomfort that stems from the friction of anal penetration. Regardless, the key is to have an understanding of your important parts and keep up yearly, physician-lead monitoring. The bottom should always be on the top of your list. #GetBehindBespoke #DoctorsOrders #Monday #LGBT #LGBTQ #Queer #Instagay #Health #Wellness #Gay #SexEd #SexualEducation #FBP #FullBottomingPotential https://www.instagram.com/p/Bq7fMVYHrWS/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=y3lmwiqivh0z

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#ButtIsItTrue? Can you take 🍆 in the ass and fully orgasm? Many bottoms actually fall short of ejaculating. And there’s no shame in this short-cumming. Did you know you can train yourself to complete the task? Through practice, it will get easier and easier. So what's the trick, you ask? After dilating with a specialized anal trainer kit, play on your own, with a life-like, size-appropriate dildo, in the various positions in which you find difficulty. Go slow and don’t avoid the negative feelings. The nerve endings - the ones that limit your peak - will diminish these adverse sensations over time, leading to enhancement and, finally, a full release. It can take time, so @DrEvanGoldstein suggests practicing whenever you masturbate, trying to simulate the exact limiting scenarios. We at Bespoke are all about the bottom, but, more importantly, a bottom who is able to achieve all they want in their sexual pleasures. Pound on! #GetBehindBespoke #DoctorsOrders #Monday #LGBT #LGBTQ #Queer #Instagay #Health #Wellness #Gay #SexEd #SexualEducation #FBP #FullBottomingPotential https://www.instagram.com/p/BqXca3vHp7I/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=18ykeega3c1kc

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Have you learned the art of being a top yet? It’s one thing to hold the racket, but it’s another to actually know how to use it. It not only minimizes the trauma associated for the receiver, but also can make for an enhanced overall experience for all. #ButtIsItTrue that angles are key in being a master top? More than you know! Towards the front is the prostate and towards the back is the posterior pelvis - both with significant amounts of nerve endings. Be careful not to repetitively engage with either of these regions, specifically if it’s painful to your partner. Just move your body forward or backward, depending on the position, to recenter yourself into the orifice. Lastly, the canal takes a turn 8-12 inches from the rim, so if you fall in that range, you may need to alter the angle again otherwise you'll go balls to the wall (in a bad way). Depending on which direction your cock bends when erect, these directions may be the opposite for you. There is a science to anal sex, boys. Take a minute to process and then, of course, practice. Because practice makes the perfect top. #GetBehindBespoke #DoctorsOrders #Monday #LGBT #LGBTQ #Queer #Instagay #Health #Wellness #Gay #SexEd #SexualEducation #FBP #FullBottomingPotential #BallsToTheWall (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/BqFbTHanfYS/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1gu6k92vsz7ls