#call-in

[m-ushroomtale]

‘This was what really changed my mind, slowly, slowly changed my mind about China. It started here. Two foreign students — a South Korean, and a Japanese — told school authorities that we Chinese students were smoking and drinking alcohol. But they themselves also do this, it’s just they were never caught. 

I asked him, “Why do this?” I said, “We invite you over for birthday celebrations, and we treat you like good friends, we share our food and wine with you.” The South Korean, I don’t know why — he just burst out laughing. He told me bluntly, “You’re Chinese, how can you think I’d actually be friends with you?”

After hearing this, I got so pissed off I exploded. I beat the shit out of him. I beat the shit out of him in the school. The next day, I got punished for it, as expected. And it was a very serious punishment. After three days, I thought, well if the school ends up dismissing me, then I — I’ll leave.  Later I switched to another school, a university in Bangkok. I lived in a South Koreatown. Everyday, I go out and see South Koreans littering, doing whatever and throwing garbage out on the streets. Thai people would tell them in English to stop. And South Koreans, without blinking, would reply, “I am a Chinese.” 

When these people do bad things, they throw their dirty water on the Chinese people. When these people do good things, they say “I am from South Korea”. I have never before encountered such a shameless people.’

‘This is not an isolated incident. 

Wasn’t there a video before, where there was a Pakistani little brother who is the owner of a diner. A lot of Pakistanis own and operate fast food diners, right. On the front of his shop, he has a sign that says, “If you’re Chinese” — they have this meal set that’s free of charge, just for Chinese people. 

There was a South Korean who went to take advantage of this free meal, saying they are a Chinese. But they were caught. This sort of thing always happens. There’s another video where a South Korean woman did something shameless, and then said she was a Chinese. Standing right beside her was a real Chinese, who filmed her and chased after her, asking “Where are you really from?” She finally admitted she is South Korean. All these years, it’s always been this way!’

‘It’s really true though. I — don’t know if this is some sort of national defect that they have. It’s not for me to judge either way.’

[sarcasticbabywhispererjess]

No pants are the best pants. 👖

[mmdtreasuredmemories]

What Makes Call-Out Culture So Toxic [submission]

Call-out culture refers to the tendency among progressives, radicals, activists, and community organizers to publicly name instances or patterns of oppressive behaviour and language use by others. People can be called out for statements and actions that are sexist, racist, ableist, and the list goes on. Because call-outs tend to be public, they can enable a particularly armchair and academic brand of activism: one in which the act of calling out is seen as an end in itself.

What makes call-out culture so toxic is not necessarily its frequency so much as the nature and performance of the call-out itself. Especially in online venues like Twitter and Facebook, calling someone out isn’t just a private interaction between two individuals: it’s a public performance where people can demonstrate their wit or how pure their politics are. Indeed, sometimes it can feel like the performance itself is more significant than the content of the call-out. This is why “calling in” has been proposed as an alternative to calling out: calling in means speaking privately with an individual who has done some wrong, in order to address the behaviour without making a spectacle of the address itself.

In the context of call-out culture, it is easy to forget that the individual we are calling out is a human being, and that different human beings in different social locations will be receptive to different strategies for learning and growing. For instance, most call-outs I have witnessed immediately render anyone who has committed a perceived wrong as an outsider to the community. One action becomes a reason to pass judgment on someone’s entire being, as if there is no difference between a community member or friend and a random stranger walking down the street (who is of course also someone’s friend). Call-out culture can end up mirroring what the prison industrial complex teaches us about crime and punishment: to banish and dispose of individuals rather than to engage with them as people with complicated stories and histories.

It isn’t an exaggeration to say that there is a mild totalitarian undercurrent not just in call-out culture but also in how progressive communities police and define the bounds of who’s in and who’s out. More often than not, this boundary is constructed through the use of appropriate language and terminology – a language and terminology that are forever shifting and almost impossible to keep up with. In such a context, it is impossible not to fail at least some of the time. And what happens when someone has mastered proficiency in languages of accountability and then learned to justify all of their actions by falling back on that language? How do we hold people to account who are experts at using anti-oppressive language to justify oppressive behaviour? We don’t have a word to describe this kind of perverse exercise of power, despite the fact that it occurs on an almost daily basis in progressive circles. Perhaps we could call it anti-oppressivism.

Humour often plays a role in call-out culture and by drawing attention to this I am not saying that wit has no place in undermining oppression; humour can be one of the most useful tools available to oppressed people. But when people are reduced to their identities of privilege (as white, cisgender, male, etc.) and mocked as such, it means we’re treating each other as if our individual social locations stand in for the total systems those parts of our identities represent. Individuals become synonymous with systems of oppression, and this can turn systemic analysis into moral judgment. Too often, when it comes to being called out, narrow definitions of a person’s identity count for everything.

No matter the wrong we are naming, there are ways to call people out that do not reduce individuals to agents of social advantage. There are ways of calling people out that are compassionate and creative, and that recognize the whole individual instead of viewing them simply as representations of the systems from which they benefit. Paying attention to these other contexts will mean refusing to unleash all of our very real trauma onto the psyches of those we imagine represent the systems that oppress us. Given the nature of online social networks, call-outs are not going away any time soon. But reminding ourselves of what a call-out is meant to accomplish will go a long way toward creating the kinds of substantial, material changes in people’s behaviour – and in community dynamics – that we envision and need.

https://www.filmsforaction.org/articles/a-note-on-callout-culture/

[m-ushroomtale]

It was the first time that that school offered Chinese classes. So then there were some high school girls who came and asked me, do you Chinese people eat dogs? You know, in a very... not good tone, you know?

So three girls altogether asked “(in English) Do you guys eat dogs in China?” and then the girl at the side added “(in English) Eww! Nasty!” I didn’t know how to respond at the time.

tw cannibalism mention

[v-v-viewz]

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[takethatgirlsblog]

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[cecilpawmer]

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