Divorce
My best friend is dealing with it right now and that's why I feel I need to say how I feel. I cannot fathom divorce. I just can't wrap my head around it. It hurts me to my very core when I hear or see others going through it. I feel like divorce is an easy way out. If people didn't have any easy way out they would have to fix the problems in their marriage. I think it's because marriage is so important to me. I just don't understand how people can get a divorce. How do you love someone so much that you choose to marry them an then want to give up so easily? Marriage is not easy. People have differences, they change. The person you married may not be the same later in life but those are all things you went into the marriage knowing. You married them for a reason, sometimes life gets in the way and you lose sight of that reason but you owe it to yourself and them to find it. Love is hard, life is hard. Are you going to give up on life when it goes wrong or astray? Marriage is til death do us part, for better or worse, in sickness and in health. I got it people grow away from each other but you have to get it back. I'm not 100% against divorce but pretty close. If your being beaten then I can understand that but normal other issues, I don't feel like they are a good enough reason for it. You don't feel loved-Try speaking a different love language, you can't communicate with each other- learn to, figure out how. I just don't get it. Maybe I just hold marriage to a higher standard and that's why I can't get it.