#carereg tips

[liltotlilone]

I've been wanting to get into the community and experiment with age regression, but I need a starting point. I was thinking about simply starting out with a comfy outfit and getting a paci first! But that feels like it isn't enough... Are there any resources you could direct me to that give me a good starting list of things? Any advice? Thank you for your time! ✨

Actually, that’s a great place to start! I started up pretty much the same way. I started regressing in December of 2017 with just a pair of flannel pajamas and one stuffie. I put my hair in pigtails, played with Dancer Bear, watched kid’s movies/shows/videos on Netflix and Youtube, and went on little tumblr.

For Christmas that year I got myself three pacis (they came together) and two stuffies, and for months, they were my only gear. I still don’t have a whole lot, even now. It’s entirely possible to regress with minimal or no gear.

Do what feels right for you. Try out that comfy outfit and paci and if you think you need more, then get more.

I hope this helps!

[carereg]

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We’re adding some more tags to the carereg community again, some suggested by the care cuties who took our carereg community survey, and some that I added to represent regression spaces described on that same survey.

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Careroyal: a carereg tag for princes, princesses, princets, and other royalty

Carereg tips: an advice/idea tag for the carereg community

Carebearcub: a carereg tag for bear/bear cub regression

Carefawn: a carereg tag for deer/fawn regression

Carepiggy: a carereg tag for pig/piglet regression

Caredino: a carereg tag for dinosaur regression

[liltotlilone]

Hi! I’m a little/ age regressor (girl). My daddy has been my caregiver for almost a year now! It’s been hard feeling little since my daddy doesn’t really give me guidance or rules which I need. Do you have any advice on how to talk to him about more rules? I have a couple of times but I’m not sure he really gets the rules aspect! I’ve tried explaining but maybe I’m not the best teacher 😿 Also any advice for rules to put in place? Thank you!!! 💕💕💕💕🙈

Hmm, I think the best thing to do here would be to be as specific as possible. Talk to him about the kind of rules you want put in place, if/how you want him to enforce them, specific plans for rewards or punishments/consequences, and why all of this is so important to you in the first place.

I’d also try practicing before hand, or switching to a medium that’s more comfy for you. For example, sometimes I’m not so good with speaking, so I write down what I want to say first. This could go the opposite way, as well, recording a message, they typing it out.

It’s also very important to give breaks for him to ask questions or share his opinions. If he hasn’t said anything in a while, you may want to give him a prompting question to make sure he hasn’t gotten lost or isn’t saying what’s on his mind. “Does that make sense?” “What do you think?” and, “Would that work for you?” are all good ones.

Everything starts with good, open honest communication.

As for rule suggestions, I don’t realky know if I’m the best person to ask. I don’t really have rules for my regression space, only rules for my cg1 relationship, and a few self care rules that cross apply to my regressed self.

My only rules during my regression are to brush my teeth and floss every night and get to bed at my bedtime. There are a few others that pertain to getting to bed on time, like dimming the lights or getting off my phone, but that’s it.

Sorry I couldn’t be more help! 😅