#cat-boulder

[pa2girlboss]

Guilt-free FLR: How to stop apologising for the FLR you designed - Female-Led

Guilt-free FLR: He chose this. Not as a fantasy, not as a phase, not as something he might grow out of. He chose it deliberately, formally

Another great update from @cat-boulder. This time, she addresses an issue that a lot of dommes encounter, especially early on.

[pa2girlboss]

Tongue as a muscle, She decides how it is used - Female-Led

Tongue exercises: You are not proposing anything extraordinary. You are proposing that your pleasure be treated as a maintained standard

Since @cat-boulder deleted her Tumblr account, I’ll try to share her posts here - unless she asks me not to, of course.

Anyway, great post. I wish I’d known about tongue exercises when I was in my teens and 20’s. I’d have been a much better bf.

And yes, this definitely qualifies as “Standard PA duties."

[pa2girlboss]

Your husband might be Topping from the bottom. You may have heard the phrase in its scene-based meaning: the submissive who, mid-scene, take

@cat-boulder on how to recognize and quash topping from the bottom.

[pa2girlboss]

Standing Orders - Set it and forget it obedience. The best obedience is the kind you never have to ask for twice

@cat-boulder on the value of establishing standing orders. Every good PA should be following a least a few standing orders to make #Girlboss’ life better with minimal distraction for her.