We need to talk about the severity of what happened this week.
When Lily decided to leak her sister Courtney's phone number and drop Sai's full legal name publicly, she crossed a line that most people don't even approach in their worst moments. But if you have been paying attention to her pattern of behavior, this escalation is not surprising.
The most terrifying part of her recent actions is that she either genuinely thinks she's in the right, or she just does not fucking care.
There is no third option here. We are witnessing a person who operates outside the bounds of normal social contracts. Most people have an internal braking system, a voice that says, "I'm angry, but doxxing my sibling or exposing a critic's legal identity is too far." Lily does not have that brake.
I’ve talked before about how she perceives conflict. To Lily, the mildest slight against her is a free pass to retaliate however she wants. In her mind, if you "wrong" her (by criticizing her content, disagreeing with her, or seemingly just existing in her space), you forfeit your right to privacy and safety. She views interpersonal conflict as a total war where the Geneva Convention doesn't apply.
She has said herself, on record, that she "doesn't believe in taking the high road." She wears that statement like a badge of honor, but we need to see it for what it is: a confession. She is telling us that she refuses to regulate her emotions or her actions. She believes that being "wronged" entitles her to be destructive.
When someone tells you they don't believe in the high road, and then proceeds to jeopardize the safety of their detractors, you have to believe them.
She isn't looking for resolution; she is looking for retribution.
