Apr 4
When they say figuring out if you're trans or not is more about chasing joy than hyper-analyzing your misery they aren't kidding. When I think "do I hate my boobs? am I really a trans man or am I bigender like I thought?" I get a lot of weird and complicated feelings my brain is not ready to break down, but when I think "hypothetically, what would my life be like without boobs" I can't stop smiling thinking about wearing all my favorite shirts and walking around shirtless and swim shirtless and never having to buy another bra or feel like my boobs are holding me back from doing things I want to do and it's like oh.
Oh.
#CHASE JOY#ASK WHAT WOULD MAKE YOU HAPPY CARE ABOUT LABELS AND PAIN LATER#the pain is so much easier to understand on the other side of it#labels don't matter all that much in the end just do what makes you happy#am I a man? wrong question#would I be happy dressing in men's clothes and looking masc? correct question and the answer is yes#are you a girl? who knows#would you be happier living as one? yes? okay do it then!!!#chase joy#trans#queer#transgender
