I see a lot of girlies having silly ideas about long term chastity, to the point where I have made this handy guide!!
So, you want to be locked up for a long time? Here's what you must know!
First of all! Have fun! Being locked up is incredibly fun, especially if you can hand control of your locked up lil dick to someone else!! If it's for a single session (a few hours or so), a lot of these tips don't matter and you can ignore most of this. For longer term use though, there's some stuff you need to know about to do it safely.
A few important things:
If the cage hurts when you're not getting hard, take the cage off immediately! Pinching and chafing are the most common causes of this. If this happens a lot, this cage may not be the one for you I'm afraid.
For the same reason, always have a spare key somewhere so you can take off the cage in an emergency! If you are tempted by it, you can put the key in somewhere with a breakable lock/wax seal etc so it shows when you've opened it.
This all combines to say, messing with the lock so it can't be opened at all is dangerous and I personally don't approve of it.
Next up: Hygiene. If you are wearing the cage for more than just a few hours, you will inevitably go to the bathroom caged. Of course, being forced to sit down is fun, but there are downsides too. You must clean the cage frequently, especially if you're also allowed to cum in it. Clean at the minimum once a week, preferably more. This includes taking off the cage (yes, you can include this into play if you want to) and cleaning both the cage and yourself properly. You can also shave during this time if you prefer. Of course, take regular showers as well. For this reason, flat cages are often not the best to wear long term. They get quite messy quickly. You can of course take it off for bathroom use which is what I do when locked in my flat cage, but this is at your keyholder's discretion. Any design that uses a sound/catheter should also not be worn long term, this is an infection risk!
These are the most important things to safely wearing a cage long term. However, there's a few more things that get brought up sometimes.
Sleeping with the cage on. This is usually unpleasant for the first few days, but in my experience after less than a week it'll feel like normal again. And it's really hot to wake up caged/wear it 24/7.
Sports. This can get quite uncomfortable. Take it off if you want, or not. This is between you and your keyholder tbh.
Cage strap. Wear one with smaller cages, it makes it more comfortable. Get at least two, you'll need to clean these too after all and they can go in the laundry pile.
Getting hard in the cage. Yes, it'll strain a bit, and feel a little uncomfortable, but it should never be painful. Take it off if it is. Your health is more important than kink.
Finally, one myth i want to dispel: Permanent shrinkage basically isn't real. It's a little harder to get it up after you've been locked up for a while, but when you do it's the same size, and it'll go back to normal quickly.
Hope this helps people who read this!! Because being locked up is super fun and every good girl should try it sometimes hehehe <3
