Am i really an intj? There are a few things that leaves me in doubt. • I don't necessarily hate small talk, especially if i'm doing it with someone i'm interested • I generally am able to understand mine and other people's feelings • I'm really detail-oriented, I look to see the big picture after having details • I'm not planning 60 years in advance, to be exact I have a rough plan for the next 60 years. I have the next eight months detailed plan but I don't really plan more forword than that.
Only you can tell if you’re an INTJ. I’d recommend looking into the cognitive functions to determine, in more detail, how each of the types think and whether you fit the INTJ patterns or not.
But also: none of these things disqualify you from being an INTJ. INTJs can enjoy small talk. INTJs don’t necessarily plan out every month of their lives. INTJs are 100% capable of understanding their own feelings and the feelings of others. So sure, maybe you’re another type. Or maybe you’re just a healthy, well-adjusted INTJ who doesn’t fit the internet’s false stereotypes. That’s completely your call.