@catlovesmocalike@catlovesmocalike replied to your post “I met some dude at the club and agreed to give him my number but i’m...”
I am surprised you havent blocked him. I mean, unless you take classes with him? In which case block him, and if he tries to confront you just say, I told you no five times. I feel uncomfortable, i don't care what it takes for you to get over me but please never speak to me again. But tell him off only if he confronts you after you have blocked him from everywhere
If it is unpleasant, it is his fault. He could have listened to you. (Also, tell your friends to be on alert... sometimes, they try to reach to friends or stuff)
i don't take classes w/ him but we may run into each other in town (that's how i've seen him twice) @chateauxdesablemandern replied to your post “@chateauxdesablemandern replied to your post “I met some dude at the...”
yeah abusive is maybe not the word, but then he already shows red flags for it i'd say. manipulative, harassing or bordering it (so so many messages and not stoping when told to), maybe stalking...
and if you feel blocking him would be worst for you than doing it then yeah it's probably better not to
definitely! that's exactly what i was thinking, like he's already proven that he can't take a no (or 15) now, so i would never in my life ever be around him or alone w/ him cause he pbbly wouldn't take a no then but you know what, @chateauxdesablemandern & @catlovesmocalike i thought it over and you two are right, i'm just gonna block him now, hopefully i won't have to see him again. and if i run into him, i'll say what you said. i don't think he's dangerous per se, i just don't trust him and he makes me uncomfortable @ilungaoshun replied to your post “I met some dude at the club and agreed to give him my number but i’m...”
He's Congolese?? Obviously omfg why are men like this? Like why go through all that? Why just not move on and try with someone who might be interested? ��
mdr my friend said the same thing. and right? how are you gonna beg someone to be interested in you? smh, get some self esteem
