So...who really makes the first move?
Soooo...I’ve been asked this question quite a few times. When you’re in the “talking” stage, which one makes the first move? Is a girl expected to make the initiative to ask the guy out on the first date? Or is the girl left waiting for the guy to ask the girl on the first date? Traditionally, girls would wait and have the guy make the first move, or at least that’s our hope. However, during my online dating experiment (no judging allowed), I really thought hard about it...I made the first move multiple times! Really breaking it down, a good portion of the time, I was the one breaking the ice. I was the one asking the guys out on dates. I was the one making the first move. So the answer to the question of, who really makes the first move? There really is no answer. See how the vibe is. If there’s a good vibe, just go with it. If you’re like me and have a fear of eating in front of people, ask if they want to meet up for a drink. That’s the safest option. Ladies, really never can go wrong with a free drink, and if he doesn’t pick up the tab...keep steppin 😉