Relationships, can be a game of tug of war, once the two of you are no longer mutually working together to WIN, in this world called life..
When you begin to wrestle with each other, rather than to win with each other? You are not supposed to allow yourself to nearly die fighting in a relationship, so don’t make the next person fight, trying to keep you alive..
It’s not fair for either of you, and better yet, you were never supposed to fight so hard that you over exert your time and your energy.
NEVER give someone you love, your life if all they are doing is crucifying you.
Some of us don’t know how to let go, then make declarations that you’re tired of being hurt when partial reasoning of the pain was self afflicted. The initial pain that one may cause is on them, but the decision to keep trying to resuscitate a dead horse after so long is the decision you’ve decision to make, knowing the possibility of the results..
You’ve been through or have witnessed enough relationships and/or friendships to get a sense when what once was built with the intent to last, comes crumbling down.
The moment you notice you’re the only one trying to build the house back together is when you release those bricks. YES it is hard, and harder for few but learn NOT to ignore the signs! No relationship dies a natural death, and
Love does NOT equate happiness or healthiness..
“If you have to force it, it wasn’t meant to be formed..”