cis men aren't excluded from bi lesbian attraction & identity right? bc idk how to feel about people saying that men can be lesbians but only if they're trans uhh
i don't quite understand your question so i'll answer it in a couple of ways (?)
so first, yeah mspec (bi, omni, pan etc) lesbians can be attracted to cis men. they can also only be attracted to women and trans men (maybe they're t4t yk?)
also like,,, yeah cis men can be (mspec) lesbians? if they want. like here's the thing. ik some ppl might automatically recoil at that answer (not necessarily anon) but i personally feel like if anyone wants to identify as a lesbian, they must have a good reason. maybe they're a de/transi/tioned trans woman who has an attachment to the lesbian label. maybe they are genderqueer in some way but their presentation is a cis man. maybe they're intersex and were amab but still consider themself a lesbian.
at the end of the day, i don't really like putting rules on this. i automatically give people the benefit of the doubt, bc that's the respect i would hope would be afforded to me.
listen, not just anon but anyone else, if you ever meet a cis man who identifies a lesbian, in person or online, ask them why they do, politely. start a conversation! learn more about the community! bc why the hell not yk? that's so much better than immediately reacting with disgust and hatred.
apologies, anon, i hope u don't mind me answering your question with... a very long answer... but i hope this helps a bit :]
