Jun 30, 2016
To every chubby asexual out there:
I know society tries to tell you you’re supposed to be happy at any sexual attention given to you--that you’re supposed to feel ‘flattered’ that anyone would want you, to the point that you should be ‘happy’ about sexual harassment. But you absolutely do not have to feel grateful for unwanted sexual attention. For one, you’re beautiful and perfect as you are, and you shouldn’t have to be smaller for complaints about sexual harassment to be taken seriously. And, two, your asexuality is valid, no matter what size you are.
Just because you’re heavier doesn’t mean you have to be sexually available to anyone who approaches you. You are worth so much more than that, and you deserve to be treated with respect.