Can we talk about not shaming or judging everyone who is in the closet, or discreet, or on the downlow about their gender or sexuality.
Not everyone is married, or a chaser. Some people have family that's transphobic/homophobic.
The fear of coming out is so large that some of us have accepted a life of mediocrity in place of being treated negatively by or losing our loved ones...
So when we do find a 'safe place' and some gay or trans person gives us shit for being discreet, or downlow, etc, and shames us for not being a brave fucking outcast like them, It really feels like a shit if I do, and shit if I don't.
If this offends you, good.
Being shamed for not being out yet is a most uninclusive and negative feeling. Zero out of five stars. Would not recommend to a friend. Remember that everyones struggles are different.
Thank you💗