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[obssesivebeing]

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[obssesivebeing]

So I need somewhere to burn off steam. My friend talks to me about this boy she has been seeing for the past 3weeks and they have been doing shit together but then he doesn't talk. What I mean by this is that she doesn't know anything about him, they don't talk about things that matter, their conversations are very empty and she really wants a relationship and for them to be open with each other i.e be comfortable with each other. But then since their last session which was two weeks ago he hasn't texted or called her and she doesn't know what to do and she is here venting and loosing her mind to me and then I give her a piece of advise that happens to have ended our friendship because she cut the phone on me after calling me a bitch and telling me that i don't understand. I do. Please if anyone is going through anything similar, IF HE WANTS YOU HE WILL MAKE THE EFFORT!. Don't get worked up and stressed out over someone who is enjoying their life at the other end not caring how you feel. Please. I really hate seeing people in this situation especially girls (yes boys go through shit too) Please I know it's hard to detach and get him out of your head but at least pretend till it's real. Don't give anyone that power over your mind, your heart and your being. Please. I hope this helps anyone going through a similar situation. I feel much better😁😁

[obssesivebeing]

The saying goes 'if you really want something/someone don't give up for anyone of anything' . What if what/who you want all ready belongs to someone else ? What if who you want doesn't want you? What if what you want isn't just meant for you? What do you do then?

Anita

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