While in my #COM350 class I learned some of the Budding Goddesses are settling for being someone else's back up plan. As I listened to their stories the young heroes in class were just nervous, scared of rejection and losing face. As I got a little teary I remembered having angsty moments when I felt shy as a Budding Goddess but back then we didn't have #mediatedcommunication with the exception of the telephone. I bet the guys felt shy too. We got over it! We talked, we went on group dates (yes they existed before the bachelor but it was more like four couples and not one dude and a harem), we went on one-on-one dates, we had picnics on top of buildings, bike rides, we watched clouds go by and what do my kids have to look forward to? #netflixandchill? I certainly hope my darlings don't settle for the: What are you doing this weekend? *Nothing much why? I'm not busy so if you want we can hang out. *Ok maybe. As I listen to my husband breathe next to me I am so very #thankfulforthismoment that neither of us had to negotiate the nuances of today's dating culture. #BuddingGoddesses #stopsettling #womanup #Manup #liveauthentic














