okay, i have a small announcement to make
please dont be overfamiliar, dont be mushy
im serious. ive had very few commission experiences before opening them here officially, and already ive dealt with being patronized for my age MORE than once. i really dont like being called cutesy nicknames like “smol” and “bby” IF I DONT KNOW YOU. seriously, if youre buying from me, TREAT ME WITH RESPECT. PLEASE.
you can be casual, you can call me fam or bruh or w/e, but dont go calling me honey or sweety, or darling or ANYTHING of the sort. i know i do that, but almost never to people i havent spoken with at least a few times, and CERTAINLY not to someone im DOING BUSINESS WITH.
this is a business order. please dont make me feel like youre being too familiar or looking down on me. i know im young. lots of artists are. if you are an adult and treat me like a freaking child when talking to me, you can p much guarantee that im gonna avoid talking to you as much as possible until our business is done. also chances are, if we’re doing business or you just pop in saying “hi,” i do not want to be friends with you. not because i dont like you, i just dont want to make friends with every person i talk with.
this is not a callout post. i know the people who have done this to me didnt mean it rudely, but it makes me very annoyed and feel like crap. if you come in patronizing me, im not gonna want to work with you.
EDIT: yes, this is okay to reblog