Them: *creates a social rule surrounding bedtime and doesn't tell me about it but decides I must initiate it for it to happen*
Me: *breaks social rule because I'm hyperfixated on smth and cannot read their mind to know this rule was created*
Them: *is confused and mildly upset when I didn't do this thing that is out of the norm for anyone, was never communicated, and would require me being able to break the hyperfixation myself to do said thing*
Us: *stays up much later than needed because I am absorbed into my hyperfixation and they can't move on until this secret ritual is complete*











