Why was it again Complicated?
When teenagers decide to experience relationship for the first time, they tend to only see that LOVE is all about "Me falling for you and you falling for me" without knowing that relationships are more than just falling, its all about holding to that one feeling. A feeling that can be described as fear, fear for losing that person so dear to you and no matter how hard you try to avoid that feeling you still get to experience that fear. But when these teenagers grow up, a slight change of perception towards love begins and the journey towards complicated relationship won't only be a status on Facebook but an experience worth sharing for people who really think that relationships are easy to handle.
There is no exact meaning for love but there's one truth about it, it brings happiness or sadness and a mix of both. But if I were to describe love, a single sentence will do, "Love brings out the real you". Yeah. Definitely it will bring out the real you, like literally and totally the real you. All the bad stuff and great stuff will be revealed in front of the person you truly love because that's what love can do to bring out your best and worse personalities that even you didn't know those thing exist. It takes years though before you could truly reveal who you truly are because of that one feeling again, the fear of losing. And now we'll answer that question from above, why was it again complicated?
When you start to experience that fear, another feeling comes in. Struggle. Day and night you kept on struggling like someone was killing you by stabbing your heart. Though I believe that what the heart feels is a command from your mind and because your struggling, your mind can't think straight. It only thinks about that fear you're dealing with and so you kept on struggling just so you can get out from that nightmare. People who are deeply in love with their recent lover are the ones who tend to experience the worse fear there is. And to ease that fear and to stop that struggling feeling, they do the most complicated things in a relationship. And so they became the "Tanga Queens" and "Tanga Kings" but never judge those people because you don't know how hard it is for them to swallow their pride just to have back that one moment where love was all about happiness and sweet moments.
Even though they know that the relationship has long gone ended, they still hold on to that thought that there is still hope for the both of them and that second hand chances can work things out again. They still spend their time, money, efforts and all the thing they could give to that ex-lover even though that person doesn't get something in return. The thought that he/she could be with that person is all ready enough without minding being a loser in the end. Sometimes, holding on is not a gesture of showing how deeply you love that person. Its also about letting go and giving that person a happiness that can no longer be found in you. There are no right or wrong decisions, its just about the consequences that would either do you good or bad.