#content: rant

[this-is-multigenderphobia]

Things Ive been thinking about today.

1. You are not entitled to knowing about a stranger's genitals

2. If you assume genitals from agab, then asking someone's agab is the same as asking about their genitalia

3. If you assume genitals from transmasc/transfem, then asking someone's (especially if non binary) identity is the same as asking about their genitalia

4. If you assume genitals from tma/tme, then asking whether someone is tma/tme is the same as asking about their genitalia

[this-is-multigenderphobia]

Another reminder too, putting "men dni" is not a progressive or (trans)feminist move in my opinion. A blog may be centered towards women, but there is absolutely no way to say men cant be there without excluding some women. Additionally, men looking at a blog is not a threat to the blog, its followers or its purpose, and I sincerely do not understand why multigender, genderfluid, non binary people and everyone else who happens to identify partly or wholly as a man have to be excluded from spaces that would otherwise be for them too.

[this-is-multigenderphobia]

Had to block like two dozen radfem accounts because I saw a post defending the right of transmasc and trans men lesbians in lesbian spaces but the reblogs. The reblogs y'all, they were harrowing. The amount of radfems coming onto the post to complain about trans women was astounding. The amount of vitriolic hatred. I usually stay in trans circles so Id genuinely freaking forgot how radfems talk.

It makes me so sad and so furious that any trans woman has to see that bullshit radfems spread.

If you make a post supporting trans men or criticizing a specific trans woman, you *must* make it clear that antitransfeminists and transmisogynists are not welcome. You cant allow this to happen, to let transphobia run unchallenged. You have got to protect and support trans women.

[this-is-multigenderphobia]

Being trans is awesome because it means being yourself and taking pride in who you are until you remember transphobes exist