Hi!! I have a synastry question. Can you help me please with some information? If my planet is in someone's 8th house, who's the one affected? Like I know it affects us both but who's the most affected? For example my mercury, venus and saturn are in his 8th house, what does that mean? How is he feeling about me? Because i read some staff and i'm a little restless. Please help me, it would mean a lot
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8th House Synastry (Mercury, Venus, Saturn)
- I have someone these aspects with a friend and one of my mutuals and I can say from experience that it's more transformative for the 8th houser. Mainly because your planets are entering a space/theme in their life so to speak
- the themes of your planets in his house are gonna influence him and push him to transform faster than normal and make him deal with his darker traits. All with the purpose of metamorphosis
- there's an overall anxiety and immediate need for attachment coming from both parties
- Saturn in the 8th house is an indicator for karmic connections, you might've been connected in a past life somehow. Possibly you were related or had a authority figure/student/subordinate relationship. Saturn affects him by making him take some distance from you and close off emotionally, but you will be living in his mind rent free in the mean time. Saturn is pushing him to mature based on the sign it is in and he might feel the need to be more serious around you. Here's where the anxiety feelings enter the scene
- with Mercury you might challenge some of his views and his mindset. He might overshare with you and open up about some traumatic situations out of nowhere. You could open each other's minds on stuff that you might've overlooked about your personalities. Both of you could be extremely curious, even obsessed with digging out info about eachother (stalking each other's social media is a possibility) . Mercury too is reinforcing my theory that you might've been related in a past life
- the presence of Venus will increase his fortune, he might feel generous with you and want to spend money on you if he can and vice versa. Venus also represents humour, so you might bring the lighthearted side of him or make him feel better about the themes of his 8th house, specifically his darker side. You might make him feel accepted and loved (how he's gonna accept said love is up to him)
- please remember that all these can vary in intensity depending on the signs and aspects that your placements make with his placements, not just the position in the 8th house. This is only a general glimpse on the main themes of this particular synastry
- one thing that I can say based on what I've seen in couples with 8th house synastry is that you need boundaries, you need to be honest with eachother and give eachother space. And things will work out if that's what you want 😌
I hope this answers your question, have a nice day/night and take care 💗💗













