[Caption: image containing a sigil made to represent the concept of togetherness. Text reads: Togetherness *Drawn specifically for Jack & Charlie, but free for general use *Designed with romantic relationship in mind, to be used with spell outlined below (CW: Sex)]
This is a spell designed for lovers, first and foremost. I’ve not yet test driven this spell, as it requires a partner. This spell is designed with a sexually active couple in mind, so if you’re not comfortable having sex with your partner, this might not be the spell for you. But feel free to adapt it, please reblog this post with your adaptation, I would love to see it. Also, excuse my formatting, I’m on mobile and at work.
You Will Need:
Candles (whatever you have)
Crystal or other energy synch of your choice
A partner
Part one; Preparation:
*Start with a clean space. A nicely made bed in a comfortably clean (read: not necessarily spotless, but free of clutter or any level of mess that would make you uncomfortable) room works well.
*You want the lighting to be dim, but you still want to be able to see each other. Personally, I will have my overhead light off but will be leaving my 5 windows with the blinds drawn but not blacked out.
*Light your candles and place them anywhere that is safe and comfortable.
*Lay out your crystals or other energy synch nearby, where you will be able to feel their presence.
*Lay out your sigil; this can be written on one or both of your bodies, or on paper nearby (don’t use paper you need later, you’ll be burning the sigil afterwards) (if writing on bodies, draw somewhere that will be subject to sweat or friction. Ideally the sigil will rub off during the spell)
Part Two; Charging (a.k.a. the Sex part)
*This can be done in any position. For my purposes, we will be doing a variation of “cowgirl” (yuck, I hate the name of that, its very cis-normative. If anyone knows a better name, let me know). In this case, this means the penetrating partner is sitting up on the bed with their back to the wall, leaning on it for support, and legs crossed like when you were in school. The partner being penetrated will straddle the bottom partner, and allow the phallus into whatever orifice feels appropriate.
*Hold hands, if comfortable and able
*Make gratuitous eye contact, if comfortable and able
*This is not meant to be very vigorous sex, at least at first. Focus on your partner, the penetration, and stillness to get started. *Synch your breathing, if possible
*Once situated and comfortable, get in touch with the energy flowing between you and your partner. Feel the energy flow between you, and direct it outwards. Allow it to radiate into the crystals you’ve placed nearby. You might visualize water bending if energy transference or meditation aren’t your strong suits.
*The focus and intent at this point should be “togetherness”. Not just the word, but the entire concept of togetherness, whatever that means for the two of you. Keep the sigil and the intent clear in your mind through this process
*Again, this is not vigorous sex. Slow, calm movements. Ideally all movement should occur using strictly the kegal muscles, but of course move as much as is necessary to retain the erection of the penetrating partner (if said partner is penetrating with a natal penis). You should be enjoying each other, calmly and serenely. Think “making love” more than “fucking”
*Kissing is of course more than acceptable, and is in fact encouraged
Part Three: Casting
*This can be done at any point after charging has begun
*Ideally you want to feel energy at equilibrium, as though your energy synch is full but not overflowing, and you and your partner are completely at peace with one another
*When ready, its time to work towards that orgasm. Ideally you want simultaneous orgasms, but if this is not accessible for absolutely any reason, of course feel free to climax whenever it feels right. Do make sure each partner climaxes if at all possible
*This is the point where you can get fast, loud, vigorous, whatever you need in order to finish. I know how Jack and I will be doing so, but each couple is of course unique.
*Once each partner has climaxed, turn your attention to the sigils. If written on your body, the orgasms were enough to cast and you can was those off however you see fit. If written on paper, the orgasm has done most of the work but being a step removed you are going to want to burn the paper (or destroy in another way if burning is unsafe/unaccessible in your environment). I suggest lighting it with the candles you’ve had burning throughout the act
Part Four: Aftermath
*Blow out your candles
*Dispose of any condoms used
*Each partner may and is encouraged to go through their regular post-sex cleaning routine
*Each partner should take a crystal (if more than one was used) to carry through their daily life. These crystals now contain the raw energy of the two of your close, together, in tune. This not only will promote a healthy, long lasting relationship, but should also help with mental health and loneliness.
*Repeat as necessary, depending on how much energy your crystals hold and how quickly you burn through them. When in doubt, once a week.
