I have a confession to make.
To put this as gently, but as clearly as I can, I haven't been entirely honest with everyone here. My identity on the internet has been one separate from who I actually am.
Ten years ago, when I started to become more social on the internet, my parents didn't want me to reveal my identity to strangers on the internet. So, to keep myself safe, I created another me. A 'me' I could be on the internet without fear of people discovering who I really was. Since then, it's been close to 10 years, and along that line, I've met all of you.
If you're curious about who I actually am, I'm free to take questions or DMs about it, however, the essence of the idea is that my personality is the same, but in terms of the person I actually am, I'm not, this is why I've avoided VC for so long. I don't expect anyone's pity, or expect anyone to take this lightly, in fact, anyone who feels uncomfortable with me now is free to remove me accordingly from any discord servers, friends lists, follow lists, etc. But I wanted to give the 'why' before I gave the 'what.'
A few of you may see this information pop up elsewhere or maybe told by someone else, or by me personally. But this is the essence.
This is me, and this is who I am. People can still call me Jenny, and I'll still accept she/her pronouns, but I've kept this a secret for too long and I needed to tell everyone. I don't want any trouble, or to start any drama, but I understand that I've been a bad person in withholding this information about my true identity from people.