#dando

[threesmallcrows]

Lando watched the video back. The trouble wasn’t just that Daniel looked fit, but that, through the lens, it was obvious that she thought he was fit.

happy monday to all @disarmd heads :)

[f1-disaster-bi]

https://www.tumblr.com/i-like-sour-sweets/821858081445183488/ok-dando-heads-you-need-to-sit-down-for-this-one?source=share

Dando is still alive 😍

Things we love to see 🥺

They will never not be so endearing to me. I love them sm 🥺

[ricclando]

Please sit down and open with caution. there was a big dando moment at FOS 🫶🏼

https://www.tumblr.com/i-like-sour-sweets/821858081445183488/ok-dando-heads-you-need-to-sit-down-for-this-one?source=share

my beautiful dando anons coming to me immediately with this news… i am so sorry for how absent ive been i promise i still run a strict dando program in my brain. my god i love them. i love them so much it makes me need to crawl into a hole and die

[disarmd]

what would you say are some non-negotiable or so clearly dando characteristics (if there are any)? I have an idea for a dando fic but since it's a particular mind horror one, i'm scared of slipping too much into maxiel territory. thank you <3

this is such a great question and such an interesting thought exercise, like for dando but also for any pairing. what makes it different when this person is with that guy vs the other one. what characteristics or traits do two people bring out in each other vs the same guy with someone else?

i'd say the overlap with lando and max and daniel is that lando and max both find daniel extremely funny and laugh a lot around him. but, to me, the difference then comes in how they react to the humour. with max, when daniel says something, max then ups it. like he thinks it's so funny he's bent over holding his stomach and then he tries to say something equally as funny, but he usually lands on something so outrageous that it triggers daniel's internalized homophobia.

whereas with lando, daniel will say something flirty and lando tries to play it cool. so like the pingpong video, lando flicks daniel's ear and daniel says it's more arousing than painful and lando's just like on to the next, where if max where there and daniel said that, max would be like "AROUSING? DO YOU KNOW WHAT ELSE IS AROUSING? SIXTY NINING HA HA HA."

so max is there always broadcasting on main - daniel i want to go to your farm and then we break our arms and we spend weeks together just the two of us and it's on your farm and we're together. where lando on main is more like, ew, i would never want to go to daniel's farm anyway. (one week later:) hi daniel, i'm on a plane heading to your farm.

and i think part of that is that lando loves being the pursuer. lando wants to be the one paying, lando doesn't want anyone who is too keen, lando doesn't want to be chased. and daniel, for how friendly and likeable he is, for how much he draws people in, i think is actually quite difficult to pin down. so daniel needs to be chased AND doesn't do any of the eager stuff that puts lando off.

whereas max keeps making invitations and waiting for daniel to do the work, and then daniel doesn't. daniel's not going to organize for max to come to his farm, which is why max has never got the visit.

and then finally i think the big thing with lando and daniel is that they're able to connect on both their masc sides and their fem sides. so like lando's at the farm riding dirtbikes, like having to shower outside because they're so dirty. but then lando and daniel are also wearing matching sparkly necklaces that are very feminine. they both have an interest in creative things, and i think the heart of dando is their matching jpg accounts and their love of music.

max isn't a music guy, really, and there's no way that he's ever going to be engaging in recreational photography.

so i see the heart of dando being their ability to connect in different ways, but especially having that overlap with the creative - they way they like taking pictures generally, and of each other specifically. the coy playfulness we can see in the pictures they've posted of each other. they're thick dicked himbos but they want to be artists.

[baloofski]

Lando talking about his F1 teammates

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[elementalmoments]

Lando in that baggy Monster shirt and his calvins and shorts and he's at some party the DJ is pretty good and Daniel is there and he gets his hands on Lando’s hips up under the hem of that baggy shirt and his fingers are so warm on Lando's skin as he walks him until they're in the corner Lando up against the wall Daniel almost-but-not-quite shielding him from the room and the music is thrumming through the wall vibrating against Lando's back and Daniel's looking at him, hungry, eyes going from Lando's eyes to his mouth to his chain to his cock, starting to fill the front of his shorts, and Lando wraps a hand around Danny's wrist and slides it down from his waist to press it over his dick and asks if that's what Daniel wants and Daniel nods, mouth suddenly gone dry.

[the-in-between-honey]

thoughts on carlos and danny sharing lando for some... friendly activities.... 👀

Oh I have SO many thoughts.

The energy between Lando/Daniel and Lando/Carlos is so different to me. Daniel would encourage the gremlin-y parts of Lando for sure. So in my mind, Daniel and Lando have a fwb thing going on, but Lando and Carlos start to figure things out romantically between the two of them. That’s fine, no hard feelings from Daniel. But he can tell Carlos is much more traditional/vanilla, and he’s also easy to tease. One night, they’re all out at some club in Monaco, and Daniel asks Carlos if Lando has shown him how much he likes (fill in the blank, idk). Carlos doesn’t even know how to respond except for stuttering and blushing. Maybe he doesn’t even know exactly what Daniel is talking about.

One thing leads to another, and they end up in bed together with Daniel showing Carlos exactly how to drive Lando wild. It’s not that Carlos was ever not good in bed—Lando thinks he’s really good, actually—but it’s all new and Lando is still learning how to ask for exactly what he wants and hadn’t wanted Carlos to feel embarrassed etc.

Daniel shows Carlos how to make Lando come just by playing with his nipples (thanks to the anon that sent me the dando nipple play fic, that’s canon now in my mind), how much Lando enjoys having his throat fucked (Carlos had been scared to hurt Lando, but Daniel has a bigger dick than him and Lando loves it), and how to make him come multiple times in one night.

Of course, it ends up becoming a regular thing when Daniel is in town. It’s too good to just do once.