i’m an infp too and omg i’m relieved other people feel this way too tbh. it’s like you have to bury a little part of yourself in order to be around other people and it goes automatically but when i think about it it makes me feel isolated from everyone? and thinking about this makes me feel lonely
yeah, totally get it! i think i’ve learned to deal with the lonely part over these past years. i mean, i love being by myself rather then with a lot of people around (which i think is related to the fact that i’m only me when i’m with ME, like literally) and ofc it helps. but it’s a tough exercise actually, bc it’s about a certain self acceptance that you’re kinda “unique” around the people you love and to love this lonely part of yourself can be hard sometimes. but at the same time acknowleging that you're not literally alone in this thoughts, bc other ppl go through the same is also another comfort for the loliness!!
