My partner is being SWERFy and I'm gonna have to confront him over it. One of his other partners is thinking of entering some sort of SW and he has issues with the clientele she might have.
It's crossing some moral line for him that I actually feel doesn't make much sense, on top of saying he wouldn't want to even be friends with someone who has this clientele. It's actually really worrisome and I need him to know I have concerns about how he's approaching this, because I'm not sure he understands the implications of what he's saying. Namely: he isn't being a safe person for SWers to be around.
I think he has every right to feel how he wants, but he's taking a moral high ground that endangers SWers and removes their autonomy. I don't like that and I have to figure out how to talk to him about it because *no*.
I want to know where his line is because he's talking about things someone might not even be able to screen for in a lot of circumstances while being judgemental. I'm not enthused by this at all 😩 aka *eye* might not be comfortable continuing a relationship with *him* depending on his rationale.
Cuz he's saying it's for the safety of other partners... but is also saying he can't even be friends with someone how has this clientele??? Which is just 🚩🚩🚩 to me
