society's pressure to marry is a real thing, some of us don't want a date to marry agreement, because we think we let a lot of opportunities slide in order we want a future with them. gets niyo ba? HAHAHA! ito yung mga ayaw pasakal, charot. sobrang magbabago buhay mo kasi you are gonna settling things that you wouldn't normally settle for. even at marriage daw kasi people still get heartbreaks, and they've seen that too many times that dating at all can lead to heartaches. mga mima nating naumay na sa cycle ng buhay pag-ibig kaya mas gugustuhin na lang din wag magpasakal, aye este pakasal, petition na para sa divorce dito sa bansa kaloka. tsaka bata pa ako ganito na lagi eksena, "paano kapag nagka-asawa ka na hindi ka pa rin marunong magluto, baka itapon ka na lang", "paano kapag nagka-asawa ka hindi ka pa rin marunong maglaba baka ibalik ka na lang dito ng asawa mo", laging reply ko, "bakit? maga-asawa ba ako?", bata ka pa lang pero ganyan na sinasabi sa'yo, dahilan kaya ayokong makasal kasi tumatak sa utak ko na gagawin ka lang palang alipin sa bahay kapag nag-asawa ka, eh di wag na lang mag-asawa. including the reason that i'm still very young at age para sa ganon, i don't see marriage happening in my future na talaga plus after ko pang mabroken nang malala hahaha, first major heartbreak iyarn? i'm 1 year single and now i am aloud to be excited about discovering myself more outside of needing another human to validate my existence. galingan na natin 'to, charooot! i could change my mind but yeah if it happens, it happens. and ito, some of us dating to find their true love person, they don't wanna settle for a hookups situation, so that they stayed single for a very long time and they really are believe sa kasabihang, "you're dating because you think of that person you wanna marry", they're just so serious when it comes to love or having a partner, we cannot stop them what shit they wanna do, what life they chose to live, we don't want someone who will judge and degrade us aren't we? the bottom line is have fun while respecting the person you are with and seeing without expectations to that person.